theoddone
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Hi all,
I was wondering if anyone has experienced someone's Pluto aspecting any your personal planets and how it made you feel in the long run.
Here's my experience on that: I'm currently friends with a man who is 15 years my senior. His Pluto aspects my Venus, Moon, Mars, and Sun. Pluto is trine Venus and Moon, sextiles Mars, and squares my Sun. I’m terrified of him having this ability to look deep into my soul and seeing my true self and I'm scared of letting him to get to know me. I feel I need to keep my friend at a distance because of that because it's so overwhelming. There's also a bit of sexual chemistry involved with his Mars conjunct my Mars, his Mars sextile my Venus and Moon, and a Venus/Uranus double whammy.
I know I shouldn't feel scared because Pluto is my chart ruler and it's in my first house. He's not Plutonian unless you count his Pluto squaring his Venus and sextiling his Mars and the fact that he has a 7th house Pluto.
Our interaction is very on and off. People have actually assumed we're dating or in a relationship when we're not and have made it clear that it's not the case and it gets irritating. I wonder if people are picking up on the synastry because the composite chart shows nothing positive except Moon trine Saturn. Sure, we flirt every once in a while but that's normal between friends. We have done some fooling around in the past but now he's largely coming off as uninterested and I definitely want to keep my distance.
Personally, I feel with Pluto in synastry, he gets what he wants and then the planet person gets tossed to the side. I don't know if that's the actual case but it sure seems like it.
I was wondering if anyone has experienced someone's Pluto aspecting any your personal planets and how it made you feel in the long run.
Here's my experience on that: I'm currently friends with a man who is 15 years my senior. His Pluto aspects my Venus, Moon, Mars, and Sun. Pluto is trine Venus and Moon, sextiles Mars, and squares my Sun. I’m terrified of him having this ability to look deep into my soul and seeing my true self and I'm scared of letting him to get to know me. I feel I need to keep my friend at a distance because of that because it's so overwhelming. There's also a bit of sexual chemistry involved with his Mars conjunct my Mars, his Mars sextile my Venus and Moon, and a Venus/Uranus double whammy.
I know I shouldn't feel scared because Pluto is my chart ruler and it's in my first house. He's not Plutonian unless you count his Pluto squaring his Venus and sextiling his Mars and the fact that he has a 7th house Pluto.
Our interaction is very on and off. People have actually assumed we're dating or in a relationship when we're not and have made it clear that it's not the case and it gets irritating. I wonder if people are picking up on the synastry because the composite chart shows nothing positive except Moon trine Saturn. Sure, we flirt every once in a while but that's normal between friends. We have done some fooling around in the past but now he's largely coming off as uninterested and I definitely want to keep my distance.
Personally, I feel with Pluto in synastry, he gets what he wants and then the planet person gets tossed to the side. I don't know if that's the actual case but it sure seems like it.
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