(Following is not in accordance with standard horary delineation and uses whole sign house format)
-you = 1st house = Capricorn = Saturn
-your ex = 7th house = Cancer = Moon
-looking at the issue of reconciliation, from her perspective, I shall take the Lot of Marriage for Women (LMW) cast from HER signifying sign (so the formula is her "ascendant"-7 Cancer + saturn-venus); therefore her LMW (which I take as the indicator for possible reconciliation from her point of view) falls @ 26 Sagittarius
-LMW is in both her cadent and your cadent houses (her 6th and your 12th) = - testimony (for reconciliation)
-LMW is in a pitted degree (-) and also in a dark degree (-) of Sagittariu = - testimony
-her significator Moon flows toward the LMW (+) your significator Saturn retrodgrades away from the LMW (-) = net neutral testimony
-her significator, the Moon is in an elevated degree and also in a bright degree = + testimony
-your significator, Saturn, is in the 10th house of advancement (+), in its exaltation and in a bright degree (+), but is in retrograde motion (-) = net + testimony
-Moon flows toward Saturn, Saturn retrogrades toward Moon = + testimony
-no applying aspect between Moon and Saturn = - testimony
Adding up:
Positive = +3 testimonies (net)
Negative = -3 testimonies
Net = 0 (neutral reading)
So this indicates to me that the question of reconciliation is dead-even, a toss-up, "50/50"; it means, then, that what will happen in this matter is up to how you handle this situation, reconciliation could be in the works, or something could happen to break off this possibility.
Personally I think that the reconciliation significator, the LMW, is debilitated by placement in a cadent position, in a pit and in a dark degree-although it is helped somewhat by the sign Sagittarius and its ruler, Jupiter. The LMW is conjunct the star, Aculeus, and perhaps implications of this star tell us what we want to know: with Aculeus, it all depends on HOW one looks at things-if looked at negatively, then everything is bad and horrible and damned; if the same things are looked at in a positive light, however, then the good, the promising, the hopeful is seen hidden in whatever presents itself on the surface; so perhaps Aculeus is saying that HOW things in your relationship are looked at (rather than WHAT those things were or are) will decide whether or not reconciliation will occur...