BadlyDrawnGirl
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Hi all. This is my first foray into "serious" astrology though I have always known I was the archetypal Scorpio...but never delved into ascendancies or anything more complicated than sun signs.
For the past year I have been involved in an extremely tumultuous relationship with an Aquarian (male). Although I know our sun signs make for a fairly tricky pairing this alone doesn't seem to adequately explain the hugely volatile nature of our relationship.
I don't have any accurate details on the exact time of his birth, so I won't bother providing his birth chart...I'm actually curious as to whether my own chart indicates a predisposition to high-conflict romantic relationships. I honestly don't feel like this has been a pattern for me, but my relationships do tend to be extremely intense and of the "whirlwind" variety (although I was married to a Taurus for three years, but I felt totally unfulfilled by his lack of creativity and his tendency for graceless aggression). It may be that my other relationships have simply ended of their own accord before they had a chance to go south. I'm not sure.
Anyway, I have really started to wonder if my birth chart is having some sort of insidious influence on things. I've felt lately like I'm at the mercy of something "beyond me" and my partner has also said over and over that he feels like something is going on between the two of us that is more than what meets the eye. Genuinely, I think of myself as a very compassionate, loyal and nurturing individual (albeit somewhat on the crazy side, but I try to regulate my craziness as much as is possible lol) and the idea that I was placed on this earth to torment this person who I care so, so deeply for (and him vice versa) is seriously making me nuts.
Long story short...does anyone have any insights based on my chart? My very amateur astrology-buff friend noted that the Mars opposition ascendant is bad news. I have no idea what that means.
...Am I doomed to a lifetime of unrequition and conflict? Can I ever be "good" for someone or are my personality aspects too dominant or intense to be compatible with a partnership?
Edit: So I was unable to attach my chart on my smartphone, so I will give my birth details here...maybe someone would be so kind as to link it? Thanks ever so much...
November 16, 1982
7:30pm in Philadelphia, PA (USA)
For the past year I have been involved in an extremely tumultuous relationship with an Aquarian (male). Although I know our sun signs make for a fairly tricky pairing this alone doesn't seem to adequately explain the hugely volatile nature of our relationship.
I don't have any accurate details on the exact time of his birth, so I won't bother providing his birth chart...I'm actually curious as to whether my own chart indicates a predisposition to high-conflict romantic relationships. I honestly don't feel like this has been a pattern for me, but my relationships do tend to be extremely intense and of the "whirlwind" variety (although I was married to a Taurus for three years, but I felt totally unfulfilled by his lack of creativity and his tendency for graceless aggression). It may be that my other relationships have simply ended of their own accord before they had a chance to go south. I'm not sure.
Anyway, I have really started to wonder if my birth chart is having some sort of insidious influence on things. I've felt lately like I'm at the mercy of something "beyond me" and my partner has also said over and over that he feels like something is going on between the two of us that is more than what meets the eye. Genuinely, I think of myself as a very compassionate, loyal and nurturing individual (albeit somewhat on the crazy side, but I try to regulate my craziness as much as is possible lol) and the idea that I was placed on this earth to torment this person who I care so, so deeply for (and him vice versa) is seriously making me nuts.
Long story short...does anyone have any insights based on my chart? My very amateur astrology-buff friend noted that the Mars opposition ascendant is bad news. I have no idea what that means.
...Am I doomed to a lifetime of unrequition and conflict? Can I ever be "good" for someone or are my personality aspects too dominant or intense to be compatible with a partnership?
Edit: So I was unable to attach my chart on my smartphone, so I will give my birth details here...maybe someone would be so kind as to link it? Thanks ever so much...
November 16, 1982
7:30pm in Philadelphia, PA (USA)
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