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Unread 06-13-2010, 01:33 AM
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Intense obbsession, but manipulative....

I am in a long standing relationship with my boyfriend... but this past year someone has come into my life that I'm so undeniably attracted to. I believe he has the same feelings for me, but we spend so much time playing games, I believe because both of us are scared that we are going to get hurt.
We have not been intimate with each other, but the desire is there. I do not want to hurt my current partner, and I'm completely confused as to weather I should break this connection with this other guy, or pursue it further.
Some side notes: my current situation, (sage) his moon conjunct my south node.
The new one, (cancerman) his north node conjunct my sun in the 8th, and my north node, jupiter, and mars conjunct his venus in his 1st....
also- well I guess you will see when you look at the charts.

Here's the link for cancerman chart:

Here's the link for my current boyfriend and my chart:

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Unread 06-13-2010, 03:48 AM
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Re: Intense obbsession, but manipulative....

it is your chart that we should examine at first to see how your progressions and transits work.

basicly your venus in gemini might leads u to confuse friendship with real intimasy

secondly i would ask u how your relations with your real father are? does the new person replaces the role of father in your life?

you feel that with the cancerman might have much in common but your boyfriend is the one that completes u.

post your chart with transits and progressions and we will have a focus on that matter cause i believe that the issue starts from inside you
May the force be with you...
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Re: Intense obbsession, but manipulative....

The new one, (cancerman) his north node conjunct my sun in the 8th, and my north node, jupiter, and mars conjunct his venus in his 1st....
Nodal contacts are very important.
Firstly, for a proper evaluation you need to post your chart, preferably with progressions and transits on same wheel found in extended chart selection. Reduce the ratio of orbs to 80%, select smallest image size 63% on picture,then choose house system (my personal preference is for Equal house rather than the default of placidus), right mouse click and select 'save target pic as' and save to hard drive then upload here

plus a synastry bi wheel and/or composite charts from
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