Ok id look at it like this, moons just left uranus in your 3rd house, uranus opposed mercury which is the sudden msg you sent her, so the msg becomes mercury, her L7 sun did receive merc by fall....but mercs in scorpio now so shes probably over it.
Jst leave her be, or send her some funny gif or something ...between you/saturn and her/sun the reception is still good, so nothing to worry about.
U are right thanks she just asked me another question so u are right .. im so glad
And no more flirty msgs
But i quite like flirty msgs though so dnt see what the problem is.