Kite
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Happyraccoon said
I will refer to you as Happyraccoon and your son as Littleraccoon if that's ok. Also , I like to work with whole houses if that ok. It turns out that littleraccoon has his Part of Fortune within 6 minutes of my Sun..figures huh..another wacky connection in the forum!
Kite
Only do this if it's fun!!! Kite? Are you flying????
If so:
I have a Pluto South Node conjunction on the 12th house side of my Ascendant in Virgo.
My second child (a boy) has that Pluto Soutn Node conjunction (square mine) in Sagg, on the fourth house side of his Nadir. I've been writing about it (maybe too much?) over the last few days (see other posts.)
I want to help him but he really literally pushes me away. He suffers and I have to just stay with him (sitting on floor, staying calm, breathing, while he has temper tantrusm) without being able to comfort him.
It's such a common interpretation for Pluto in the fourth to indicate a child who had serious power issues with a parent...and I'm seeing this as being real. But even though I know this, I don't know what to do.
Because of my military upbringing (post traumatic symptoms all over my body) I have a tendency to want to organize everything in an effort to stay away from people's anger. But my child is so angry with me. It's very rare that he'll even let me hold him! And I have to resist the temptation to raise my voice even though he is screaming at me.
Are you having any fun yet????
I am:
14 Aug 1969
Tucson AZ
8:44 am
He is:
19 Apr 2002
Denver CO
3:54 pm
I will refer to you as Happyraccoon and your son as Littleraccoon if that's ok. Also , I like to work with whole houses if that ok. It turns out that littleraccoon has his Part of Fortune within 6 minutes of my Sun..figures huh..another wacky connection in the forum!
Kite