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In the realm of relationships, the direction of feeling (call it that) is crucial.
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I agree. And this is where the
quality of reception comes in.
I also think the actual words that people use in posts affects your understanding of it. Some people use passive language and others use active. It's always easier to understand the active language : Planet X receives Planet Y (not Planet Y is received by Planet X.)
I just wanted to say something about what I've read and experienced about the KIND of reception it is. So the sentence becomes :
Planet X receives Planet Y BY ... (Sign, Triplicity etc).
John Frawley (in
The Horary Textbook) put forward his description/interpretation of the degrees of the nature of "receiving" because, logically, we do love or like people in differing degrees. For instance, he put "Exaltation" reception as being "on a pedestal" and then goes on to say, we all know what happens when we put someone on a pedestal - viz they often fall off! Not always, but often.
There's great debate between astrologers about this but I quite like Frawley's descriptions/interpretation - which can be applied to questions about jobs etc too, or a house you're buying etc. He notes:
RECEPTION BY SIGN (ie in "domicile") signifies genuine / strong liking. The best. Love, if you like.
RECEPTION BY EXALTATION signifies on a pedestal / over the moon about them etc but it might not last (I've seen this soooo many times in charts where the relnship has not lasted. It also involves 'expectations' too.)
RECEPTION BY TRIPLICITY signifies a
lesser degree than by Sign & Exaltn - best described as a kind of strong liking but nowhere near as strong as real love. This could be for many reasons - including the fact that they're a cautious person.
RECEPTION BY TERM being weaker still ... tolerating 'em.
and BY FACE, well, practically nothing at all.
I've often thought about assessing the 'RECEPTION BY' stuff with a numerical value I guess (just for ease of communication) where you could have, say -
a) +10 = LOVE, the grand passion, the intense, overwhelming feeling of 'I don't want to live without that person' kind of feeling. The top feeling about whatever.
b) +8 to Exaltation type of love - still the grand passion, intensity etc but with a warning of having too many high expectations and with the possibility that it may not last.
c) +5 to Triplicity - like them as mates, have a great time hangin' out but they're not "the one" you want to spend the rest of your life with.
d) +4 to Term - as for c) but not willing to spend as much of your time with them.
e) +2 to Face - barely interested, but willing to be polite and maybe go to a party but not willing to be "the one" for you.
f) Minus 5 for 'reception' by Fall : You'll probably "Fall" and lose interest quickly.
g) Minus 8 for 'reception' by Detriment : They're going to end up being bad for you - best to get out of this relationship/job.
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