I have been "seeing" someone for 5+ months now. It started as a one night stand and I've been trying to figure out how it became what it is now. We are not in a traditional relationship but we have an intense sexual relationship that seems to revolve around power, some kind of psychic/unconscious reading of one another and just pure need. I have become illogically obsessed with it and I have never felt so under someone's spell before. I think he is a player and he is VERY good looking so he gets away with it. I know that rationally I shouldn't see him anymore and I am sure it will end badly, especially on my end. I haven't figured out why he is still chasing after me. I'm wondering if we have aspects that are contributing to this feeling of uncontrollable behavior and if it just one sided???
I would love someone's opinion on this:
My Sun Sextile his Venus
My Sun Opposition his Lilith
My Sun sextile his Pluto
Mercury Conjunction Mercury
My Mercury Square his Moon
My Mercury Conjunction His Saturn
My Venus Conjunction his Sun
My Venus Square his Pluto
Jupiter Conjunction Jupiter
Jupiter Square Asc node
My Saturn Conjunct his Mercury
My Saturn Square his Moon
Saturn Conjunction Saturn
Uranus Conjunction Uranus
Neptune Conjunction Neptune
Neptune Sextile Lilith
My Pluto Square his Sun
My Pluto Trine his Venus
Pluto Conjunction Pluto
Pluto Trine Lilith
Lilith Opposition Mars
Lilith Sextile Neptune
Asc node Square Jupiter
Thanks in advance!
He has a natal Sun/Pluto square in his chart. Look up Sun square Pluto.
Your Venus sits on his sun. That is a very nice aspect. Mutual feelings of affection. But that Sun/Venus has the challenge of the Pluto square. That does bring in the intensity of the sexual energy which is great.
When this Venus/Pluto connection is working at it's highest level it can be a transformative, intensely passionate and intimately deep relationship.
But if it falls into discord then it may become an unconscious power struggle, a passionate entanglement. I hope you can see this person clearly to know whether he is coming at you from a positive or negative place.
I say that because if someone has Pluto square your Venus, they are the spider and you are the fly. If he is the malicious type, or he craves control, he can easily manipulate you, or be perverse etc. Be aware of where this is heading. Do not allow yourself to become in a vulnerable place or to be victimized by loaning him money or your heart and soul.