Yeah your Moon is in Scorpio pointing a dominant and obsessive mother but isn't badly aspected by Venus, Uranus, Jupiter or Pluto. So you don't have "mommy issues"
That's why you consciously desire a girlfriend like this.
Men who have the moon badly aspected by Pluto "Mommy issues" (no matter what sign the moon is it) Will attract those kind of women who are obsessive because unconsciously they desire a woman like this, but they will always act defensively toward them because they consciously think they dont want a woman like this.
Sun and Moon in water = you feel confortable with people who are sensitive, you hate rude and/or frivolous people. You crave for a deep emotional bound with people you care about.
With the ascendant in water = You need a partner who is Earthy and reliable, and with a more mature personality as a balance in your life.
With Mars in Cancer = Sex isn's just about physical pleasure, but also about emotional bond. You really need to feel safe and secure in your sexual encounters. You may find Lunar types sexually attractive. You enjoy to make love in places with water. Your 8th house also describes your sexual likes so you have saturn there, and uranus rules it which is in Capricorn and this sign rules mountains and high places. You also like to make love in Capricorn places and you are very conservative in sex.
Venus in Aries = Can be as intense as a Venus in Scorpio when in love, but less secretive, more showy, and easier to let go or forgive a fault. It is badly aspected by Mars (this increase your sex appeal, and increases you sexual apetite), Uranus will make you better handeling long distance relationships, and may bring women who act like Uranus into your life.
Remember that Venus and its aspects will tell the kind of women you find more beautiful at your personal point of view.
Finally you are Looking for a woman who is: Pluto, Saturn, and Mars. Not the most emotional, but yes she will be quite intense and dominant.
With Neptune and Uranus in the 7th, more than one marriage is possible, and your wife will show Uranian and Neptunian characteristics in her personality. Artistic and unusual types will find you attractive and you will find them too.
Hope this helped you.
I hope some feedback
Yes, thank you very much. The first part of your message said I didn't have ''mommy issues'' but are you saying that is me basically not having a problem with wanting that?
Also distant relationships I cannot do. It hurts too much, but that is probably my partially unaspected moon being too obsessive and all that water leading to my HUGE desires to love them and be loved so much that I cannot handle the wait for even a minute.
My DC is in Capricorn, so it's reasonable for me to be with someone more practical then I am BUT my angular Neptune dissolved the possibility.
Could you tell me more about my Neptune? It is the most dominant planet and I want to see exactly what is going on. Thank you.
And even if I could lean towards more of an earthy type, I remember a girl who liked me who was full of caps apart from her moon and she just was too realistic and I was so unrealistic, she could not understand the fantasy I create with who I love and although she wanted to ''mommy'' me she didn't have any dominance, intensity, and even much sex drive.
I want that dark depthed, obsessive, jealous, dominant, powerful intensity from Scorpio and then I want that Nurturing, soothing, mothering type love with it.
As I say, I can DO those things because I have so much Cancer energy and Scorpio in moon and Pluto where it's ruled in the 5th house of creativity is HUGE in my personality.
I just know that I'm too sensitive and I always fall and break and with all of that water in my chart I fall under the most extreme ''baby'' type. The one who always shows love and expresses it constantly in huge dimensions, always the one going for cuddles and kisses all the time and if anything is taken away from me I will tantrum so hard. I am too sensitive and I constantly need reassurance, and my hand held in everything, I get even more sensitive in love and it gets to the point where I am inflicted for no reason, almost like it hurts just to be alive.
And I have come to terms with me not being normal or even partially manly at all, I am 20 years old on the 11th March and that is very soon, but I look like a 16 year old, I am like 5ft 6 (if that has anything to do with the cancer rising) and I'm just in general small, doc said that my growth plates are done growing and that 9 out of 10 males my age would be bigger than me.
I don't know about past generations because the world is bigger now but I am definitely small.
BUT after I got through hating this about me I realised that I BELONG being a kid, it suits me because of the way I am, and how small I am and stuff so I got myself to realise that that I required nurturing anyway, my cancer energy is deeply heading towards nostalgia and things from the past like that because I didn't really get to be mothered much growing up and I desire it after not having it.
I'm convinced that because of all this stuff that I require I am even HUGELY attracted to a taller, more powerful looking women as well.
But I am not sure where certain signs should go, because the 2nd girl I was with had Cancer moon and she was motherly and stuff but she was not dominant, she was not intense at all, she was so open and free and nurturing everybody else as well.
So I am wondering if it should be Scorpio moon because I require that secretive and kept to herself sort of thing just like me because I would get so jealous if they were so open and stuff, I just can't take it.
So Scorpio moon and Venus for intense dominant emotions in general and in love?
and then Cancer sun Mercury and Mars? for nurturing and soothing communication towards me and motherly caring possession over me?
or Cancer venus?
I don't know what would best implement this sort of energy.
and I know that I am ''dreaming'' here but it's good to talk about because I am all of these things so the missing half must exist somewhere, you know?
