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Unread 03-10-2019, 08:19 PM
julia_Rodes julia_Rodes is offline
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Should I walk away?

I could really use some help. This is just so stupid. But itís getting to me.
I have never met him. He is an academic writer and broadcaster and after reading something he wrote, which resonated with me, I reached out to him impulsively. He asked me to write an article for his website, which I did. Itís published. End of matter, in some ways. But I seem to have developed a massive crush on him! Which is really stupid as Iíve never met him (he lives in a different Country!) and we have only ever communicated electronically.

I follow him on social media and am very annoyed with myself for developing feelings for him. To make matters worse, I donít think he has ever really noticed me. He is an accomplished, clever, witty and charismatic man.

So I asked - will he ever be interested in me? The chart is attached, and although very much an amateur, I had a go at interpreting it.

I am Venus, at 29 Capr in H4; in his exaltation. My co-significator is moon, in H3, at 6 Capr, in exaltation of Mars and own triplicity. He is Mars, in H8 at 9 Tau, in house of Venus and exaltation and triplicity of moon.

No aspect between primary significations. But is there mutual reception between them? In the absence of aspect, is this of any relevance?

There is an applying trine between moon and Mars, though, and also I think mutual reception? Moon is the ruler of my midheaven here - that confused me.

I saw this chart, and it seemed to be telling me that something might happen so I havenít unfollowed him (which was the plan before I cast the chart). To be honest, I donít need this complication in my life right now. But I am dreaming about him and hearing his voice in daydreams and seeing his name suddenly pop up when I least expect it (in cinema credits yesterday, for crying out loud!) and I really need some sense knocked into me. Please help me.

Julia xx
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Unread 03-10-2019, 09:32 PM
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Re: Should I walk away?

I think you've done a good job of reading the chart. There's some compatibility there, but probably not enough to clinch a relationship. Because the moon is the faster-moving planet, if you want something to happen, making contact is up to you. On the other hand, if he's married with children, you'd probably want to cross off romantic involvement.

I think you'd have better luck in figuring out your attraction, if you could do the synastry on your natal charts. You would need his approximate birth location and date. Without a birth time, just input it as "unknown." Then look for paired suns, moons, reverse Mars-Venus aspects, and any of the above plus the ascendant as inter-aspects. At Astrodienst where you got your chart, you could also construct a composite chart and see how that looks.

I don't think that developing a crush on someone from afar is unusual. Whether it can or should become reality is a different story.

From the standpoint of psychology, possibly this man symbolizes some part of yourself that you need to develop. For example, if a woman admires a brave man, possibly it's a clue that she needs to develop her own courage.
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Unread 03-10-2019, 10:32 PM
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Re: Should I walk away?

The Venus conjunct south moon's node would indicate you are in some type of karmic contact.
I second what waybread wrote, to have more insight.
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Unread 03-11-2019, 01:00 PM
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Re: Should I walk away?

I'm just a novice, bear with me.

Hello julia,
the truth is that is irreal

Forseen is nothing but structurelessness
Therefore, you can be naive if you don't walk away.
Everything near the 4th house, etc.

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Unread 03-11-2019, 02:04 PM
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Re: Should I walk away?

There is a trine aspect between Moon and Mars with strong mutual reception so something is possible, but more like infatuation between both. Moon is in detriment though, so probably not a healthy sort of connection.

Plus Venus is about to change signs, I dare say you will feel differently about him soon enough and these rose coloured glasses will disappear. I don't think he is who you think he is...
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