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Unread 03-20-2016, 09:31 AM
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What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

And I mean really REALLY hate each other to the point of wanting to kill one another?

There's this icky girl that I ABSOLUTELY freaking hate. I hate her so much, my heart beats really fast. It's like the adrenaline in my body is preparing me to fight her. Like...she REALLY makes my blood boil. I wanna smash her with a hammer until her face and body becomes disfigured to the point she's totally like squash.

I'm sorry if that sounds harsh...but the hate is extreeeemly intense. As a matter of fact, I haven't hated anyone as strong as I hate her.

For example: She could be in a completely good mood, but the minute I walk into the room, I can feel her mannerisms start to change and she'll give me that "bitchy" look, sometimes even a "disgusted" look and I can't help but do the same to her as well.




Anyways, I looked up our synastry and ALL of her personal planets make squares to ALL of my personal planets. It's absolutely ridiculous, but it makes sense.

Several of the REALLY bad ones are:

Sun square Moon
Moon square Mercury
Moon square Saturn
Moon opposite Pluto
Mercury square Saturn
Mercury square Pluto
Venus opposite Saturn

As you can see, lots n' lots of Saturn/Pluto squares = Lots of negative energy between us. We simply HATE each other. Funnily enough, my Mars also conjuncts her ASC, further intensifying the hate we have towards each other. It's almost like we're meant to be enemies, LOL.

To make it even more ridiculous, nearly ALL of these squares are within 0-1 degree orbs, so it's super tight and strong.

The only positive aspect we have in the synastry is Mars conjunct Venus, so I guess that tones down the hate to SOME degree. But unfortunately, the negative aspects completely overpowers that one positive aspect.

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Unread 03-22-2016, 02:20 AM
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Re: What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

Are you on the left or the right?

I'd say Mercury square Mars could lead to a lot of fights/dislike.

Possibly 8th/12th house placements, although, I've been backstabbed by people whose planets fall into my 7th house, as well. Any hard Mars aspects between you two?
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Re: What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

Wouldn't a heavy imbalance of mode or a heavy lack of an element create the potential for this with a complete and utter overload of another mode or element?
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Re: What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

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Re: What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

Let us see the synastry chart. I would wager her Moon is in your 8th.
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Re: What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

I think it's the sun square moon. I had this with this "friend" (using this term loosely) and we didn't like each other much at all. We still talked politely over instant messenger but we were definitely not "good" friends. I thought she was judgmental, pretentious and that she thought of herself as hot sh*t but was actually very ordinary. She thought and actually said that I was irresponsible.

My moon in Scorpio squares her Moon in Leo.
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Re: What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

I have Sun square moon with my boyfriend. We also have Sun trine Moon .
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Re: What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

Generally speaking, if we use aspects by sign, then semi-sextile and inconjunct are the most problematic aspects.
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I have Sun square moon with my boyfriend. We also have Sun trine Moon .
Are you the sun or the moon in the square?
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Re: What synastry aspects make you HATE each other?

Moon. But admittedly, my moon falls on his sun/moon midpoint. So it is Square both of his lights.
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Generally speaking, if we use aspects by sign, then semi-sextile and inconjunct are the most problematic aspects.
Thatís interesting. I was thinking today that the aspect was terrible for relationships.
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