TamaraL
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Dear members of Astrologer's Community forum,
I have a very difficult question to ask (meaning emotionally) and I would appreciate your help on this question. For the last year and a half I created a beautiful relationship with someone. Everything about this relationship is pure in theory, because we share a common ground, interests and vision.
In fact we want to adopt two baby kittens at this point! It seems as if I have found everything I was looking for...
The problem in this relationship is one: My brain. I recently have been diagnosed with ASD which I believe prevents me to feel the ability to connect emotionally with another human and more importantly to develop a relationship to the next level. When I say next level I mean having more responsibilities like adopting a pet, moving together etc. Honestly, I feel a bit ashamed for asking a question about our ending our relationship but I am trying to understand what is the real issue here.
Querent: Ascendant in Virgo- Mercury located in Gemini 10th House.
Quesited: 7th House - Pisces- Jupiter located in the 6th House in Aquarius.
Also the Sun and Moon form a conjunction in Taurus in the 9th House.
I think this conjunction describes us best. Because we are both quirky and intellectual and our life aspirations are placed in the 9th House. We both admire each others personalities and consider this relationship as the most important of our adult lives. The problem is I don't know whether I can develop this relationship. Somehow there are doubts about everything. Brief conclusion: I don't think its a yes for the time being. There is a great possibility that my anxiety is causing this negativity and I intend to seek help on the subject. I see it as a very unusual chart and would like to hear your version. Uranus can also mean separation but it can also describe the way we met - internet.
I cannot bring any objectivity as this question creates a lot of pain.
Thank you,
T.
I have a very difficult question to ask (meaning emotionally) and I would appreciate your help on this question. For the last year and a half I created a beautiful relationship with someone. Everything about this relationship is pure in theory, because we share a common ground, interests and vision.
In fact we want to adopt two baby kittens at this point! It seems as if I have found everything I was looking for...
The problem in this relationship is one: My brain. I recently have been diagnosed with ASD which I believe prevents me to feel the ability to connect emotionally with another human and more importantly to develop a relationship to the next level. When I say next level I mean having more responsibilities like adopting a pet, moving together etc. Honestly, I feel a bit ashamed for asking a question about our ending our relationship but I am trying to understand what is the real issue here.
Querent: Ascendant in Virgo- Mercury located in Gemini 10th House.
Quesited: 7th House - Pisces- Jupiter located in the 6th House in Aquarius.
Also the Sun and Moon form a conjunction in Taurus in the 9th House.
I think this conjunction describes us best. Because we are both quirky and intellectual and our life aspirations are placed in the 9th House. We both admire each others personalities and consider this relationship as the most important of our adult lives. The problem is I don't know whether I can develop this relationship. Somehow there are doubts about everything. Brief conclusion: I don't think its a yes for the time being. There is a great possibility that my anxiety is causing this negativity and I intend to seek help on the subject. I see it as a very unusual chart and would like to hear your version. Uranus can also mean separation but it can also describe the way we met - internet.
I cannot bring any objectivity as this question creates a lot of pain.
Thank you,
T.
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