I have a few questions for you, in order to help you possibly kickstart your romantic life.
I see one possible stumbling block in this journey. If you look at the small element grid on your chart page, you will notice that WATER has only the AC and MC listed. No planets placed in the Water element. But you do have Cancer rising, which is often indicative of an emotional, compassionate nature.
You have a nice AIR Grand Trine, which includes the Sun, the Moon, Chiron, and Uranus. So I wonder if you might come off to others as a friendly, communicative, interesting person that others might want to explore a relationship with in the future. I think you may attract interested suitors.
You are intelligent, witty and fun to be around. You probably have a lot of friends and acquaintances?
My question is—can people get below the surface with you and find an emotional bond, and find a way to connect on the emotional level? Or do you have your defenses up, and your walls are too thick to penetrate?
Venus in the 12th square Saturn. google it… I think you are making it harder than it needs to be to develop romantic relationships.
Venus inconjunct Neptune in the 7th. I wonder if you might have an unrealistic vision of how love is supposed to unfold. Are you waiting for blinding LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT to hit you like a lightning bolt?
Do you find fault with those that are interested in you, and reject them—while being attracted to those who are no good for you at all?
You have Jupiter exactly conjunct the 7th house cusp. You will have a very nice beneficial emotional relationship at some point. It may start with a close friendship that grows into love.
But you will have it bring the walls down and learn to be more open and less critical of others.
Cancer rising can be more defensive, more self protective than the average bear. Your Moon, which rules the chart, is conjunct Chiron in Libra. So you may be more of a drama queen than you realize. Maybe you scare some of your potential lovers away by being too difficult at first?
Chill out...don't be so intent on directing or controlling things. With so much AIR/EARTH and so little Water/Fire, you may have a hard time letting things flow. It may seem that you are trying to think things through too much. Don't second guess everything and think so hard. If you scrutinize everyone and ask too many pointed questions you may run too many people off.