So I met this guy on Hinge 2 weeks ago, lets call him J. We have been on 2 dates so far, he seemed really keen and we got on like a house on fire. I did tell him I am in general looking for a more stable relationship rather than a hookup and that I want to wait to have sex with the right person. We had an amazing date and got a little bit intimate (no actual sex though).
The date was 4 days ago and I feel like he has distanced himself a little bit after that. My pride wont let me message him first now as his post-date message did not include him mentioning a next date, he did not seem too enthusiastic in making more plans with me, but it could simply be that he was just preoccupied with other things.
Some friends say it's just he's busy and I should message him myself, others say he's probably ghosted me.
Just trying to figure out what to do!
From what I can tell Mercury(him) likes me(Jupiter) but there is no positive aspects whic is worrying.
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The date was 4 days ago and I feel like he has distanced himself a little bit after that. My pride wont let me message him first now as his post-date message did not include him mentioning a next date, he did not seem too enthusiastic in making more plans with me, but it could simply be that he was just preoccupied with other things.
Some friends say it's just he's busy and I should message him myself, others say he's probably ghosted me.
Just trying to figure out what to do!
From what I can tell Mercury(him) likes me(Jupiter) but there is no positive aspects whic is worrying.
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