No job No Love (Desperately pleading for help)

nofate said:

Hello fellow people!
I've been sad, low for quite some time.
Despite being qualified, I haven't been able to get a job.
I graduated 2 years ago and since then life has been an indefinite downhill road to me.
Everything I've tried, every time I mustered the courage to try again have been futile.
Personally, also things have been terrible during this time.
I've met the worst people possible who have completely shattered my self-esteem.
I see everyone moving on and doing well in life.
Every time I try to stand up again and try, I come back to the same situation as before.
Despite trying really hard.
Since then I have started believing in astrology.
My sun and venus is debilitated.
Mercury is also not placed well.

I'm currently in the peak phase of sade- sati.
I have partial kaal sarp dosh too.

Can you help me wrt to my career and marriage?
Here are my birth details:
Date of Birth: 10/11/1991
Place of Birth: Dewas (Madhya Pradesh, India)
Time of Birth: 10:10 am

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nofate said:

Thank you for the guideline and links, JUPITERASC.

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Happy to be of use nofate

JUPITERASC said:

Happy to be of use nofate
I just read your thread with question regarding job
and I wonder whether you are aware of a branch of astrology
known as Horary astrology
because
although general trends are indicated by natal chart
and obviously the natal promise of the natal chart is also shown
Horary astrology does provide more immediate answers
as it works in a different way to natal astrology

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nofate said:

JUPITERASC
No, I have never heard of Horary Astrology.
Can you suggest me any links or website which are good for the same?

Also, I tried opening the horary astrology board but can't access it.
Anyway thanks for the suggestion.

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we have separate Horary boards for categories of questions

JUPITERASC said:

You asked very specific questions on your other thread
to which HORARY could provide answers
we have separate Horary boards for categories of questions
i.e.
When will I get a job?
is the kind of question often asked at https://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=44


Should I look for a course abroad?
Do I have chances of immigrating abroad for work or after marriage?
https://www.astrologyweekly.com/for...trologyweekly.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=43


there is also a reliable and popular online Horary forum at http://skyscript.co.uk/forums/viewforum.php?f=2&sid=15040d5f960d79a63a774dda8b20a134
that site also offers a FREE online Horary tutorial course
with self-testing online http://www.skyscript.co.uk/horary_intro.html
If you read the intro to the FREE online Hoary tutorial
you then shall understand how Horary astrology works if you are interested
remember that as I mentioned earlier
keep in mind that ours is an astrological learning forum
where members practice astrological skills free
no one is paid
therefore
responses to threads
are often from members who are beginners with little or no experience
keen to learn by practice
members are encouraged to discuss interpreting their own charts to learn by practice
we also have members with many years of astrological study completed
members have day jobs
and those of our members who are professionals
do not provide a complete professional reading for free

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nofate said:

Thank you, JUPITERASC. This is really helpful of you.

May all good fortune and luck come your way

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jkxx74 said:

Hi nofate,
are you listing your birth day as October 11

or November 10?
because

there are two formats
wanted to make sure.
But I'll look at your time as if it was October 11.

However I use Western astrology

so you may need to wait for someone else to give you a Vedic reading.
Regards

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For a vedic natal reading post your data on our VEDIC board

jkxx74 said:

Hi nofate,


are you listing your birth day as October 11 or November 10? because there are two formats wanted to make sure. But I'll look at your time as if it was October 11. However I use Western astrology so you may need to wait for someone else to give you a Vedic reading.


Regards

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Alchem said:

He is taking his time your love. He is older and perhaps from overseas or far away from where you live. Saturn is trine Venus from the 9th house.

Transit Saturn will also time this in two years by a transit trine to Venus creating a grand Trine. You may meet him before but in two years a serious commitment will be made.

He is an older man but very elegant and cultured.

Your work is frustrated for the next nine months due to Saturn square the MC, it is not that you are blocked but that you are getting more ambitious and the chart wants you to plan your moves first.

A beautiful and frustrated princess falls in love with a man of elegance from far away.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzB32ZScPS0

For now flower with beautifying yourself, being kind to yourself and enjoying the time you have to yourself while you can.

I feel this man comes from Dubai or has connection to Dubai. Saturn in rulership Aquarius with the 9th house connection to Venus in rulership is a dry Oil or conservative country. With the Grand Trine completed in two years I feel that this will be a country that has status. In economics Libra rules Oil.

He will be a man that has alot of Scorpio or Pluto about him.

This man is a deep lover if secretive and dominant at the beginning.

aayi main to aayi nazaaron ke
anjaane ik jahaan se
laayi main to laayi bahaaron ke
afsaane bhi wahaan se

I've come from an unknown land
of sceneries..
I have also got stories of springs
from there..

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jkxx74 said:

Your chart (for others to see so you get more comments, I will post mine in a while)


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Alchem said:

I hope that you now remembered what the song used to mean to you and not let the dark meaning effect you no more.

Here is a new song for your Venus and you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGpGHGboWO8

Remember in your days of bliss your old song came back to give you hope again.

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jkxx74 said:

I'll start with some transits and progressions and then we'll talk about your natal chart a little also.

The difficult times have no doubt been caused by a combination of Saturn entering your 1st house (it very recently crossed your Ascendant through retrograde motion) which is read as a Saturn in the 1st house transit and this causes a profound sense of heaviness when dealing with other people - you may feel like everyone is against you and you have to fight your way through for every little thing you do. Saturn is toughening you up (and will continue to do so for the next 2-3 years) but the process will appear to be difficult at first, especially during the next few months while it's hanging out near your ascendant. It is natally positioned in your 1st house also so you have always had this sense that things are difficult and it is appearing all the more so lately with this configuration. The advice I have given elsewhere is to do what you are doing now - get different perspectives and as much help from people you know as you will allow yourself - Saturn will want you to go it alone but you can benefit from having others pitch in for you quite a bit during this time.

However once Saturn moves on and crosses your Ascendant the immediate pressure will lessen and you will regain some of your sense of effectiveness so the situation as extreme as it seems at present is temporary.

Another issue is your progressed Sun crossing into your 12th house along with Moon and Mercury - this house is not especially good for having our goals clearly defined or going out in the world and doing things - instead it's a house of solitude and reflection at best, so you may indeed feel (especially over the last 4 years) that you have been submerged into some kind of confused existence which is unlike 'the real you' in some ways. This house also promotes service to others at the expense of advancing one's own goals so you may have been inadvertently attracted to the kinds of people who are more likely to use you without giving much back in return. The house is one of spiritual growth but not so great for advancement in the material world - however you will benefit from others on a similar path. Try to attune yourself to this change as much as possible and learn from it what you can instead of fighting it (if you have been trying it) because it will imbue you with its own gifts over time, which may not appear as gifts just yet. However separately Mercury in the 12th here could indicate issues with family (siblings specifically) so make sure you are not having anyone plotting against you or hiding anything important from you because it is a possibility and it could be something which has been going on for a while.

Separately from this transit Uranus has been square your natal Saturn on and off the past I'd say year so you may have had instances where what you work so hard on suddenly gets shattered or blown apart by what seem like sudden developments coming at you out of nowhere - even though as a result you may also have learned that you can do things a bit differently even though this may not have been the intention in the beginning. This transit's most difficult side is that it makes your life seem very unstable and unpredictable and as it's an ongoing transit I'd suggest trying to take things as they come and not making too many long-range plans.

Transit Pluto squared your natal MC some 2 years ago so there was indeed some sort of 'fated' adjustment to your work goals, family situation (especially with your parents) or something related which caused you to realign your goals to something quite different from what they were before - this transit has now passed but you may still be feeling its effects and wondering if you can expect other such dramatic changes. The good news is that no, it's over, so continue with the goals you have at present.

The bad relationship situation is indicated by a square from your Venus to Uranus in your natal chart (one which I have also so could go into a bit more detail but it may cause you to feel you get into sudden affairs which start and end abruptly) as well as Chiron opposing Venus in the last months - some painful separation or other very hurtful event likely transpired in the area of personal relationships, specfically something which reminded you of a very painful event from the past. Chiron is retrograde and while currently in active will make one additional swipe at Venus some months into the future so this is something which will drag on for a while.

As far as work - there are currently no planets transiting your 10th house which would indicate positive or negative changes (however with transit Venus going through you may get a somewhat more favorable outcome if interviewing in the near months especially if you are going for something creative or which has to do with art or fashion) but Jupiter is in your progressed 10th house so it could also help boost your popularity in ways which are good for making a good impression on potential employers. Your progressed MC is also sextile progressed Jupiter so this same theme is twice reinforced - your chances are actually a bit better than normal even if your other placements at the moment are making you think otherwise.

Separately I see that you have a natal Sun-Pluto conjunction in Scorpio so this inevitably points to some very intense life experiences throughout and that is an aspect I would go and read up on because it's important to your personality and life in general. I will leave it at this for now but feel free to ask questions on any of these points.

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jkxx74 said:

nofate,


a couple of things - I find it interesting you are here asking about this this week as you are having a Jupiter conjunct Sun transit apparently these few days - it's a good one and should buoy you a bit (read help you feel a bit more positive about the future) and I sure hope it does!

Now onto the chart - one other thing I missed is another progression, progressed Venus square Saturn which is also playing into your present feelings (the bad ones) with relationships, although it has the additional effect of making you feel getting a well-paying job might be difficult - it's very important to again think of how you're feeling things are worse than they actually are since Saturn has the ability to make us see everything as difficult. This one unfortunately also lasts a while (like a year or more) so there may be that pervasive mood coming at you at times and you may be unusually interested in stability more than anything both in your personal life and when selecting jobs. There is nothing wrong with this but keep in mind your feelings are being pulled down much more than usual by this.

Career-wise you could go into some of your interests so I can understand where you think you're going a little better but your Libra MC is well-suited to creative pursuits as well as working with people and getting them to work together in an organization - pretty broad description so it could be quite a few things which apply here. Because this is ruled by Venus (with the above square to Saturn) your feelings about it are likewise affected at the moment - you may be considering your options rather more seriously than at any other time in your life so when thinking about it just think of what seems to 'fit' right now and go for it - your outlook will brighten in a year or so once the progression clears but you may need to go with the different attitude you have now for the time being.

I am not sure if this is making sense so if not I'll try to clarify it a bit more.

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jkxx74 said:

Your chart (for others to see so you get more comments, I will post mine in a while)
(red=transits, green=2nd progressions)

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