Hi Dr Farr,
I was very hopeful from your observations, because that weekend after, I saw him at my gym by the pool and we talked even more. He had to leave, but he said goodbye to me in a way that made it seem like there was something more...like he was having a hard time trying to control his emotional read. He is usually very stoic and controlled, but he was going back and forth between stoic and genuine.
Anyway, I had texted him later that night asking him what he was up to & he didn't respond. I though that was unusual, being that we had talked twice and it seemed like we were on good terms.
The a couple weekends later, I gave him a call, and he seemed happy to talk to me, and all of a sudden he asked if he could call me back, and he never did. This is so frustrating for me. This guy is 9 years older than me, and he's acting so weird.
I feel like when I was talking to him, he was putting on a shallow act. I keep having weird dreams about him, and I just want a clue.
I re ran the question, as I feel like some components may have shifted. Is there anything you can see in this chart regarding the rekindling of the relationship?
I have a feeling this guy has emotional issues or something...but for some reason, I am so hung up on him. Its hard to shake certain people, and he's definitley one of those people for me.
I would appreciate your input and advice! Thank you!