Kind of both but she has a Scorpio rising and 8th house mars but a fifth house moon lol she is very outgoing and prideful yet private and controlled
As far as credit goes, nobody has ever taken credit for my work but then again I make sure I put my mark in everything lol my mars is what gets me because I dont really fit the description I mean I've had moments where I've let thugs slide but for the most part I'm pretty good with assertion simply because I don't lose control of my emotions I say what's on my mind and handle in a composed manner I do have lazy spells lol but I do get things started pretty easily I prefer to take my time going towards goals now because my patience is short n I kno my expectations can be a little unrealistic but Saturn is transiting my first house so I'm takin a hard look at myself��
So Venus in Scorpio
and Moon in Leo describe your mother? Because this is what they used to do when they didn't have the mother's chart like you do (and I don't, lol) So to find out which planet is your mother you would look at a couple of different things to find the Almuten, or planet representing, your mother, your father, or just about anybody else. So just going by Moon, Venus, and the 10th house you get a general picture of the mother, but if you want to time predictions, you want to get exact. There's a thread about it here...
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=44673
I hear you about the Saturn transit. Sun, Mercury, Jupiter and ASC in Libra? Opposed Moon and square Mars? Welcome to my nightmare, lol. But even though it's been rough, it hasn't been all bad. Can't say I won't be glad when it's over.
Of course, later this year I get to have Saturn opp Saturn, but I'm actually looking forward to that one. Last time it was pretty good.
As far as Mars in Libra, or anything in Libra, or Libra in general being lazy? I would love to know who started that nonsense and punch him in the nose. OK, not really, but seriously? Libra is cardinal air. How can anything cardinal, meaning initiating, be lazy? Mars in Libra is in detriment. Why? What is it that Mars, when he's at home with his feet on the coffee table, want to do? Well, first he probably wouldn't have his feet on the coffee table because Mars wants to act, shake things up, get things moving, punch someone in the nose. But in Libra it's like he's on his feet with leg shackles and his hands tied behind his back. He has to talk, or think his way through life. That's why Mars in Libra makes good tacticians. They think aggressively. In your case, you have Mars and Venus in mutual reception, which I believe will actually help them both. Like, I'm a mess in your house but you're a mess in mine, so why don't we work together here and see if we can do this.
If anything, it's your Moon that bears working on. It's out of sect. Like way out of sect. You know how when you look up in the sky and see the moon in the middle of the day? Pretty, but not where it's supposed to be when it's supposed to be there? That's your Moon. And it rules your MC and is the exaltation ruler of your 8th.
With traditional do u just look at the sun thru saturn
Yes, just through Saturn, with some lots (ok, sometimes a lot of lots, lol) tossed in there too. The biggies are the lot of fortune and the lot of spirit, but there's also a lot of the mother, and even a lot of victory. These aren't all traditional, as some use the outers, but you can find an Arabic parts calculator here (Arabic parts and Greek Lots are the same thing)
http://www.noendpress.com/pvachier/arabicparts/index.php
Between the angles, the 7 traditional planets, and the lots, there's plenty to look at.