this was a general tip if you want to learn. bobzemco gave a good example of how this works- Nataly, if your MC is in the 11th sign, that might suggest serving in the military as a career, as military is the 11th in mundane
Thank you! This is very interesting and will be something I keep in mind!
so mercury under the sun beams might suggest, among other things, you harming your finances. but I don't see the connection with the questied here
To be honest I'm not really sure how or why that's relevant at all to the question since nothing involving her would involve my finances. By the reasoning set up, 2h is more than just financial matters. It's also things of value as well, including self-esteem. Virgo, while an earth sign, is not one that I outright connect to money. I tend to see it more connected to the idea of servitude, worth and value as a lot of Virgo esteem is connected to the idea of how useful it is and can be. So in this situation, I can see it more than likely reflective of feeling insecure, especially with mercury and sun being placed in the 8H, and not feeling like I may be up to snuff for her (which rings a lot more true to how things were and potentially even how she may have seen me).
Also, just to clear up few things:
8th is not the house of sexual desire but reproductive organs (you may use that to check infertility in natal). 8th and 12th, where your significator are the houses of fear which may mean you are concerned in this situation of how things turn up or you got worries in general
Thanks for this clarification. I know there's a heavy handed attitude of sex being related to the 8H but it didn't, again, seem relevant. But yes, the fear aspect makes sense. And Aqua ruled 8H likely reflects my worry (at the time) of being able to stand out to her in the group (Aquarius) that we were in. Even though we spoke quite a bit, I definitely felt that anxiety. This may also be reflected by the NN/SN placements. Rather than letting myself mesh into the crowd (Aqua 8H w. Pisces South Node), I should put more focus on standing out and taking pride in what sets me apart from the rest (Leo 2H w. Virgo NN).
I guess this is also why I feel inclined to acknowledge the double signs and intercepted ones right off the bat. Double Leo on 1H and 2H shows a need to be proud of myself and my sense of self worth. Aqua 7H and 8H shows she likely had a greater focus on the group as a whole, but in turn reflects my anxieties of not being 'special' enough (Leo/aqua opposition) to get her attention. Taurus and Scorpio being intercepted is, again, connected to values. Libra 4H shows the want and need for balance in the house at the party, while Aries shows the presence of strong personalities that attended. Scorpio and Taurus in both of those houses shows that despite the generally positive attitude, there was no active commitment to follow through on any connecting that may have been made.
also, as usually you give sun as a general co-significator of men, I'd assign Venus to the questied, and the co-signicator represents the state of mind (especially where they are will tell you what occupies them), Venus is nowhere near the 4th btw
Sorry about the confusion, I don't mean that Venus is literally rolling into the 4H, I just mean directionally speaking, it's not moving forwards but backwards, and with it being placed in the 9H of distant travels. Which since it was a coast - 3H - to coast - 9H - trip, Venus in retrograde can also be seen as my traveling from the distant spot to return to my roots (4H) rather than continuing forward on the journey and setting root there (10H).
I also wondered about Venus for her as we are both women so I suppose it could be both of us in this situation.
Jupiter is in the 3rd sign but actually 4th house- being so close to the cusp.
A lot of how I read what house to place signs in also takes direction into consideration. So while Jupiter is in the 3H near the 4H cusp, it's also retrograde, so I'd personally feel less inclined to connect it to 4H matters since it's retrograde status shows it revisiting 3H affairs.
Venus and mars are not planetary enemies
Thanks for this as I do not know if any planets are 'enemies'. I tend to see them as occupying different sides to the same coin and able to create a sense of balance. If planets acted as enemies then charts wouldn't be able to be balanced ever. They'd be perpetually in a sense of discord since enemies seldom have interest in working together to create balance.
her being in your 5th would indicate sexual desire on your side
Tbh, not sure how comfortable I feel with the heavy focus on sexual desire in a lot of the replies. While yes I was physically attracted, the interest was focused on sex or sexual desire. The aspect that rings much more true and clearly to me for a Sagittarius ruled 5H was that she was highly engaging and exciting to speak to and the conversation over all was very playful which is the main thing that triggered the attraction (and crush) in the first place. I suppose without getting to much into it as its personal, I consider myself on the grey (Ace) scale so the constant focus on sexual interest is not and likely will not ever resonate with first crushing on someone for me
her being in your triplicity does not necessarily mean "only liking" versus loving or desiring, it means not being compelled to perfect the matter
I also don't think I ever outright equated my being in her triplicity as "only liking". I see triplicity as a 'friendly' placement in terms of dignity. The question asked wasn't whether she'd make a move but rather if the interest was mutual. Perfecting the matter isn't in the equation because, as stated earlier in the thread, we're on opposing coasts and only spent real time together at the party so I'm not expecting anything to come from this lmao