When will I meet my future spouse?

waybread said:

HeartTree, it's too hard to do a tutorial on horary here. There are good basic textbooks for beginners out there, and an on-line introduction to horary on the Skyscript website.

If you're a beginner to astrology more generally, it's best to start with the basics of planets, signs, houses, and aspects. It's up to you whether you'd prefer modern or traditional western astrology, but horary is based more on traditional principles, either way. I do a kind of hybrid.

A horary chart should give a clear picture of the question that is asked, the situation, and the querent's feelings about them. A horoscope "speaks" in a symbolic language.

If the chart doesn't give such a clear picture, then possibly the time or date are incorrect; but it also happens sometime that the person doesn't ask the real question that is on her mind. Then the chart might more clearly show her foundational question.

For example, a woman might ask about her marriage prospects. But if the second house just pops out at you, maybe her big concern is seeing marriage as a form of financial security. If the 5th house has her significators in it, maybe she's really thinking about a casual dating situation; but more probably, she wants children and sees marriage as the necessary prerequisite.

Then there are cautions against judging a house or situations where a matter is not likely to go well. The often-violated rule is asking a question only once, by any means of divination.

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waybread said:

Do you want to post your natal chart? There are particular signatures for people lacking in self-confidence, being self-critical, having a difficult childhood, and so on. Once you can gain more self-esteem, you'll be in a better position to look for a relationship as two true partners in life.

Are you off for a weekend in Nature? The natural world is a great healer for broken hearts.

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Vyri said:

Heart tree,

May I ask if you are female or male? You have masculine signs rising with their lords in masculine signs, (accepting Mars, but he is deposited in a masculine province/house also, Libra.) (You wish to be influenced or accepting to energy flows as they present
themselves to you?) In other words you are in a cornucopia of an opportune province with choice pickins? How does Venus par with Mars? She advances her light to you, albeit in her detriment, with a sextile. You ponder it, Mars in Gemini, letting her lead.

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Vyri said:

The active host Mars (your personality host of the 1st house is your instigation energy force, is significant of just how you instrument energies or personality trait, (oh fickle Gemini?) in the public 7th estate. You either blend in element (Air to Air) or bring diffidence by aspect to its host lord to 7th house prospects; the union activity arena. Mars here being in the 7th opposing Saturn in the 1st with Capricorn arising suggests you are not that serious about the commitments of marriage,perhaps even doubtful? The considerations of Mercury and the signs he is lord of and just where they reside, naturally and by hour calculation, will tell why.

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Vyri said:

A very critical attitude overshadows your personality, are you depressed? Bc of these sign issues in the occult 8th; worry (Saturn is heavy and doubtful also in the 1st) do you find you are very pessimistic about the future of any long term union? The activities of life expressions-expectations, of the signs (of any definite choosing decision for long duration chances)are significant of Scorpio's regenerative forces as host to these visiting signs in the 8th. So many signs in the 8th are indicative of the myriad decisions that must be carefully weighed before any headway for progress to partnering is decided by you.

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Vyri said:

Hence the heaviest Planet of responsibility lord of 10th importance to destiny, pursuant to context of the charts query, is in the 1st. Changeable of heavy weight, Mars is doubtful as he opposes his own place of origin, personal activities are colored by heavy responsibility, Saturn/Mars opposition. (his energies here seek more of a direction of personal guidance (Mars host of personal 1st) with lifting Venus of the 7th, an air Libra mental outlet, (placing himself in Venus foundations, laughter and light are sought). Naturally placed Mars is like a bull in a china shop in Libra, albeit Libra is masculine, Mars nature does not naturally express well here, but Mars in Gemini in the same element of air will find relief engaging intellectually with witt here. The aid of a light touch and grace to administer relief for his taking up residence in the 7th, how does Venus greet him, with opportunity, sextile from Aries, he may chid her for her diminished displays or appearance in Aries, to regain his natural estate without compromise, she moves to him,
trying to aid him. (you being a woman,(?) Mars presence in the 7th in Gemini, is topical, engaging in light conversation should prove fruitful to your pursuits, if you are of a depressive state at present.

Take heart, Mercury is making the solid trine in Taurus to Pluto affairs of Scorpio of the fixed 10th, possession of Venus affairs/Taurus on the 4th solid long ascending sign. Help and aid assist you stemming from the houses of Venus Mercury, Mars, Pluto discovery/enthusiasm and progress, in your future.

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Vyri said:

..life should for you are at the sunrise of opportunity in promise right now.

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