I have NN in Scorpio in the 11th conjunct Venus, and SN in Taurus in the 5th.
Since my mean NN is conjunct Venus, I feel like I was destined to become more loving, open to love, etc. I have always been guarded and unsure about love and what it means in my life... since I grew up with emotionally unstable people who really changed my views about trusting others and having healthy relationships. I think that it's my destiny to become a more openhearted person, and to embrace the Venusian side of me that I actually tend to dislike. I'm a Libra sun, but I don't like being a Libra. I have never identified with the Libra qualities. Although my NN is in Scorpio conjunct Venus in Scorpio, I think that's telling me that I need to accept that it's OK to be loving and trust other people, that's the only way you're going to grow and become accepted by others. Having the NN in the 11th with a stellium of Scorpio planets is no coincidence. I've always been a sheltered person against my will, and I think having the NN here is reassuring me that nothing terrible will happen if I uproot myself like I've always desired to and go out and face the world, and find others who can support my artistic goals.
My destiny is to connect to other people and form a group of some kind... or to associate with some kind of group. I don't know what that will be yet, but maybe something humanitarian, which is what I have been interested in for years.
Since NN is conjunct Venus, that also means that my Venus is opposite my SN, which further emphasizes that I probably have always felt wary or even rejected when it comes to emotional attachments, according to one site I read. I can say that is mostly true. I always feel emotionally unfulfilled when I attempt to get closet family members. I think having NN in the 11th is telling me, stop asking for what your family can't give you, and find others out there in the world who can give you the love you deserve. It's sort of bittersweet but I don't feel hateful or bad about it at all, since many people I was close to growing up had tough lives that changed them over the years. It is what it is, I guess.