Attracted to one element

kbell

kbell

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I don't know why, but I have a thing for people with heavy fire. Personally my asc is in Sagi along with my north node, neptune, and mars. I was thinking about all the people I surround myself with, and it started to become clear that I feel closest to others with fire. My sister is a sagi rising sagi sun, my nieces (one has an aries stellium and the other a leo stellium). My grandfather had an aries stellium, and my father a leo stellium. I always felt much more close to them than my mother who (has a heavy water chart).

I seem to love venus in Aries, too and moon in aries men. All of my best friends have had leo stelliums. It's weird.

I'm curious why I feel so attracted to fiery people and I just mean attracted person to person not romantically (though I'm also obviously romantically attracted to fire also).

Anyone else notice this with people you are closest to? Preferring one element?
 
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Artist82

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I'm definitely attracted to other fire types, especially moon in aries also. I have asc., sun and mercury in aries, and moon in sag. I'm pretty much a text book case of a fire sign, lol. :tongue:
 
Claire19

Claire19

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kbell said:
I don't know why, but I have a thing for people with heavy fire. Personally my asc is in Sagi along with my north node, neptune, and mars. I was thinking about all the people I surround myself with, and it started to become clear that I feel closest to others with fire. My sister is a sagi rising sagi sun, my nieces (one has an aries stellium and the other a leo stellium). My grandfather had an aries stellium, and my father a leo stellium. I always felt much more close to them than my mother who (has a heavy water chart).

I seem to love venus in Aries, too and moon in aries men. All of my best friends have had leo stelliums. It's weird.

I'm curious why I feel so attracted to fiery people and I just mean attracted person to person not romantically (though I'm also obviously romantically attracted to fire also).

Anyone else notice this with people you are closest to? Preferring one element?
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You have answered your own question but no I never had preferred the one element.....I am attracted to other fire/air people in general but not always the case.
 
bittermoon

bittermoon

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As like attracts like it makes sense you'd attract your own dominant element(s). I am triple water and I'm always drawn to other watery people, especially if they also have a fair amount of air.
 
wilsontc

wilsontc

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attract what we lack, to moon

moon,

You said:
bittermoon said:
As like attracts like it makes sense you'd attract your own dominant element(s).
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I've heard it the other way...we most attract those things we lack. So I notice in kbell's chart they are weakest in Fire and Air. And only the Fire sign planets are :conjunct: (energy is combined with) :neptune: (sprituality, also confusion). So the Fire energy is "dissolved" into each other in a confusing way, creating a lack of the "sense" of fire. So kbell tries to compensate for this and looks to find FIRE OUTside theirself.

Guessing,

Tim
 
bittermoon

bittermoon

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In my case it's actually a bit of both.

When it comes to the men I dated or was attracted to, they were always quite heavy on the water. I cannot imagine being with someone with a lot of earth and fire; not in a close, intimate love relationship.

When it comes to my girlfriends, they tend to have 'earthy' qualities. There's a lot of Virgo and a bit of Cappie around me. I lack earth in my own chart (only have Pluto in Virgo).
 
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