Please help with Synastry interpretation!

I'm having troubles with this guy for ages. We aren't in a relationship for quite some time now,but I just can't forget him. He's always finding the way to remind me he's around,and he's doing it via mutual friends,indirectly.I know it might sound stupid to some of you,but please help,I don't have any idea of what to do just to get relaxed and not think of him.
I can't really read the chart by myself,and I need to know is there anything that supports this match,and even if there isn't I want to know what and why.
And is there a way to tell if our ways are going to cross soon?
Please help!

I'm assuming you are the younger partner here, the inner blue circle, so I'm going from there
I will point out aspects that i think are the most powerful in your case, and responsible for this attraction you describe
His Pluto on your asc
Your Venus sextile his Mars
Pluto Mars square on both sides! this is big factor I think
Moon trine Pluto,
Moon opposed to Neptune, Sun conj Neptune from his side, he probably is illusional regarding you, not seeing you clearly
His Venus conj your Uranus - Venus Uranus aspects(I had this same with one previous bf) are usually found in intense relationships but don't provide stability and lasting powers to a relationship, it's fun, exciting, great while it last, but usually breaks up suddenly and no reconciliation
you lack Saturn aspect to personal planets for a relationship to be stable, ie marriage... this seems to me like a deep magnetic attraction, sexual, but not to endure.
you can read more into these aspects on cafeastrology
but I can suggest if you don't want to think about him you should stay away from these means of contact he initiates. His pLuto on your asc make him very powerful over you, he can manipulate you all he wants and you may feel weak, but if someone this much older isn't going to have normal, honest relationship with you, you should forget about him and find someone else. To me it sounds he's playing with you. And those Mars-Pluto contacts can be even dangerous in some cases, better to stay away. Hope this helps, wasn't my intention to preach

Thanks for the answer Hermetic! What you've said is quite insightful. I'm going to do some more research now Thanks!

My way of helping newcomers is for them to do more research and learning rather than just ‘drop the answer in your lap’ and not necessarily to provide professional readings and forecast future events. If you are truly interested in astrology, I and most others here will help you…..

Having a Sagittarius MC which is the sign of the teacher and I do indeed teach astrology. This forum is a wonderful community of all mixed levels and types of astrologers. So I may provide links to encourage you in the hope that if you are sincerely interested enough you will do the research and enlighten yourself….

To start with it's best to look at the individual needs of each persons chart and how they relate and what they are looking for. Astro.com does have an option composite + natal midpoint method (2) which I find helpful. If you choose to post the synastry bi wheel from astro could you please select the 2nd synastry option as it will put the houses and degrees onto the wheel which is far better for us to evaluate matters....
If you post the synastry chart and realise it doesn’t show the degrees (which we need to look at) you can find the degrees and other information in a separate PDF on the synastry page of astro.com. Look for the link "View the additional tables (PDF)" and click on it to see the additional information. Reading a synastry chart is mainly about reading the aspects between the planets in the two charts. So once you find the PDF, scroll down to the bottom of the page and look in the synastry grid that is there. Unfortunately, you can only see/read these and not save/upload. That’s why I like to see both natal’s and composite. This grid (in my opinion) has too many minor aspects and the orbs are quite wide. I like to use + - max 3’

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately.

In synastry I use tight orbs and view aspects between one person's outer planets to the other person's inner planets as being "karmic connections"......usually with the outer planet person doing the teaching and the inner planet person doing the learning.

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/ascendant.html


relationship sticky
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28945
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showpost.php?p=254409&postcount=9


Unfortunately, there is no set formula or signature for marriage or childbirth, although others may disagree, apparently horary and vedic seem confident in this area. There are indicators and potential as there would be with natal, solar return chart but guarantees -- (post 2 & 3 below)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=207744#post207744

Thanks loads Astrologer!
Yes,I have a lot to learn about astrology,and I found it quite fulfilling.It won't be long till I'm able to read entire charts with no difficulties,though!
Bellow is the chart with the degrees.