Victoria
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Hello.
This guy and I have been really close and dating for about 3 months now.
There has been alot of romance and chemistry and closeness, but very little physical contact. Today I initiated a break between us.
He has been talking about other girls lately, and I said it made me very jealous, he said I needent be, because the only girl he sees is me. I know, and he has always been quite open that he does like someone else, too. Who is a boy, and I have said I have no problems with that. I believe we are all bisexuals to a certain degree, and I really don't mind him having feelings for another man. If he needs closeness from this other guy, it really wouldn't bother me, as I am quite open about such things - I can't shapeshift into a man, so you can go find that somewhere else if you need to - other women are offfff limits ! Still, I said I was hurting, and I needed some time to think. But, obviously I love him more than anything or anyone. I'd just like to know if I'm setting myself up for more pain...
Is he actually in love with this man, and yet fancies me and because it's easier to just go with the flow rather than come out of the closet?
Very very hard situation.
My question is in a way if he loves me, if so, does he love me more than this other man - AND if there is a chance of us getting back together
Thank you so much.
This guy and I have been really close and dating for about 3 months now.
There has been alot of romance and chemistry and closeness, but very little physical contact. Today I initiated a break between us.
He has been talking about other girls lately, and I said it made me very jealous, he said I needent be, because the only girl he sees is me. I know, and he has always been quite open that he does like someone else, too. Who is a boy, and I have said I have no problems with that. I believe we are all bisexuals to a certain degree, and I really don't mind him having feelings for another man. If he needs closeness from this other guy, it really wouldn't bother me, as I am quite open about such things - I can't shapeshift into a man, so you can go find that somewhere else if you need to - other women are offfff limits ! Still, I said I was hurting, and I needed some time to think. But, obviously I love him more than anything or anyone. I'd just like to know if I'm setting myself up for more pain...
Is he actually in love with this man, and yet fancies me and because it's easier to just go with the flow rather than come out of the closet?
Very very hard situation.
My question is in a way if he loves me, if so, does he love me more than this other man - AND if there is a chance of us getting back together
Thank you so much.