moonkissed
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Hi everyone, this is my first time posting here. Last weekend, I sent a short email to man I had interest in several years ago. We met online in 2005, and we hit it off kind of well, I thought, but he was in a different state, about 10 hours drive away. We both knew it may not work due to the distance, but we stayed in touch on and off for a few years. That is to say, he would contact me sporadically during the year.
In 2008, I was just getting involved with someone else, and he started to call me. This time more frequently. I didn't mind the calls at first because I thought they would stop soon as that was his pattern. But He kept calling like 2 - 3 times a week. We had long interesting conversations and I did like him, but we began to have differences in a major area of our lives. Actually this major area was the very thing that attracted me to him. As time went on, we would get into emotional discussions and I just wasn't looking for that drama. I think I became angry with him that he was unstable in this area. Eventually, I let him know I didn't think it would work out between us because I had experienced that before with a man and it was just TOO important that we both be in agreement in this are. He told me he didn't know why he loved me so much (we had never met) and it kinda shocked me. He never said that before, and I was surprised he would say something like that to me AFTER we were in this heated discussion.
That was in 2008. In 2011, I contacted him in with a short email to which he responded directly and said "let's catch up". I replied back, but I never got a response so I let it be. I wanted to know if he had made a decision to be more stable in the area that caused division between us (I didn't say this in the email.)
Last week, I sent another email telling him I was thinking about him and wanted him to know I'd like to get back in touch. I really liked talking to him before, and really wanted a friendship than a relationship. (I still didn't know if he was still "on the fence" in this particular matter, but if he was, there was no reason why we couldn't be friends. At least, I'd hoped.)
He responded directly with a short email. I sent another back with a little news of my life and I asked if he felt comfortable about staying in touch. I didn't hear back. A few times during this week, I almost wrote him again, but I didn't. I figured he didn't feel comfortable with staying n touch with me for whatever reason. I was cool with that.
He respond today -- five days later. He let me know he'd met someone and she was wonderful and his best friend and who he was committed and want to marry. He wanted to be faithful and he didn't think being in touch with me was the right thing to do even though our "relationship" was more on the platonic/spiritual side.
I email back and told him congratulations and wished him every happiness sincerely. I agreed that our acquaintance was more on the platonic side because that was true, we had never met or anything, just talked on the phone or via email. I told him I will always consider him a friend.
He did not write back, but several hours later, I received 25 emails from him containing the reply of congratulations I sent to him. They were sent from his email, but there was no reply of his in them. It was sent 25 times and it was not autosend because this free account doesn't have that feature. It would have had to have been manually sent.
It looked like he copied and pasted my response to him and just kept sending it to me. I don't understand this. Can anyone shed any light on this? He is scorpio and I am Piscean cusp.
Thanks.
In 2008, I was just getting involved with someone else, and he started to call me. This time more frequently. I didn't mind the calls at first because I thought they would stop soon as that was his pattern. But He kept calling like 2 - 3 times a week. We had long interesting conversations and I did like him, but we began to have differences in a major area of our lives. Actually this major area was the very thing that attracted me to him. As time went on, we would get into emotional discussions and I just wasn't looking for that drama. I think I became angry with him that he was unstable in this area. Eventually, I let him know I didn't think it would work out between us because I had experienced that before with a man and it was just TOO important that we both be in agreement in this are. He told me he didn't know why he loved me so much (we had never met) and it kinda shocked me. He never said that before, and I was surprised he would say something like that to me AFTER we were in this heated discussion.
That was in 2008. In 2011, I contacted him in with a short email to which he responded directly and said "let's catch up". I replied back, but I never got a response so I let it be. I wanted to know if he had made a decision to be more stable in the area that caused division between us (I didn't say this in the email.)
Last week, I sent another email telling him I was thinking about him and wanted him to know I'd like to get back in touch. I really liked talking to him before, and really wanted a friendship than a relationship. (I still didn't know if he was still "on the fence" in this particular matter, but if he was, there was no reason why we couldn't be friends. At least, I'd hoped.)
He responded directly with a short email. I sent another back with a little news of my life and I asked if he felt comfortable about staying in touch. I didn't hear back. A few times during this week, I almost wrote him again, but I didn't. I figured he didn't feel comfortable with staying n touch with me for whatever reason. I was cool with that.
He respond today -- five days later. He let me know he'd met someone and she was wonderful and his best friend and who he was committed and want to marry. He wanted to be faithful and he didn't think being in touch with me was the right thing to do even though our "relationship" was more on the platonic/spiritual side.
I email back and told him congratulations and wished him every happiness sincerely. I agreed that our acquaintance was more on the platonic side because that was true, we had never met or anything, just talked on the phone or via email. I told him I will always consider him a friend.
He did not write back, but several hours later, I received 25 emails from him containing the reply of congratulations I sent to him. They were sent from his email, but there was no reply of his in them. It was sent 25 times and it was not autosend because this free account doesn't have that feature. It would have had to have been manually sent.
It looked like he copied and pasted my response to him and just kept sending it to me. I don't understand this. Can anyone shed any light on this? He is scorpio and I am Piscean cusp.
Thanks.