Jaded
Premium Member
I'm not sure if this would fall under this category (read my chart) or not.
My question being. My husband an active duty soldier is currently paying for $860 a month for one child he found out wasn't his. His ex wife divorced him back in 2009 without him knowing. In the state of Colorado you don't need the spouses signature, or consent. We have the divorce degree. She didn't tell him till a few months had passed. He paid her the child support from 2009-2011 (that's a no no) because he neglected to pay an actual agency!!! So she got that money and loads of arrearages!
By the time we got married and our tax return hit it all went to her!
My question is...
When will his debt to her be over and when can he stop paying her completely!?!?
Can astrology ease my tension a little maybe. It's very frustrating. We share a son together and two daughters from my previous marriage. The son from his ex is 8 I believe. We have tried lawyers and every route we could.
Lawyers say he signed the birth certificate and that's that. The state of Colorado you have until the child is 5. He believed it was his until she divorced him and said otherwise. Her child doesn't know my husband as daddy. He has not seen him in 5 years she didn't allow it.
Just tell me what charts you'd need any help is much appreciated.
-Jade
My question being. My husband an active duty soldier is currently paying for $860 a month for one child he found out wasn't his. His ex wife divorced him back in 2009 without him knowing. In the state of Colorado you don't need the spouses signature, or consent. We have the divorce degree. She didn't tell him till a few months had passed. He paid her the child support from 2009-2011 (that's a no no) because he neglected to pay an actual agency!!! So she got that money and loads of arrearages!
By the time we got married and our tax return hit it all went to her!
My question is...
When will his debt to her be over and when can he stop paying her completely!?!?
Can astrology ease my tension a little maybe. It's very frustrating. We share a son together and two daughters from my previous marriage. The son from his ex is 8 I believe. We have tried lawyers and every route we could.
Lawyers say he signed the birth certificate and that's that. The state of Colorado you have until the child is 5. He believed it was his until she divorced him and said otherwise. Her child doesn't know my husband as daddy. He has not seen him in 5 years she didn't allow it.
Just tell me what charts you'd need any help is much appreciated.
-Jade
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