sometimes I feel incredibly attracted to women that have their mars in the first decan of aries
- this is a good example of how astrology people miss the forest for the trees
- It is easy to see - you have sun and venus other planets in first house and there both square the 4th house cusp mars and opp neptune in 7th house too - strong first house would naturally like aries....mars square challenges you in this liking.
- so what your really asking is how can I fix the problem of my square oppositions in relationships and attractions areas. You may be attracted to mars in aries, but your not likely to have much peace or security from it. So would it be better to be attracted to another sign symbol such as the moon sign, or some other in your chart
that has positive aspects. neptune opposite sun will not win the day in relationships easily, and you could be at a loss often enough in them. blend the aspects as a neptune sun mars person inclusive of sensitivity, passion, and appealing character - the more you have these in yourself, the more you will attract another of that kind.
If mars in aries is the only appeal, attractive for sex, its not enough. if they also harmonize to moon or sol signs, 60th harmonic sun moon especially, you can find more satisfaction.
your sol moon 60th harmonic is at 0 aries. so that naturally also likes arian types. but a sol sun in aries would be better because you also have sun in 1st house, naturally like to aries. with venus but opposite neptune it is a double blind, kind of dissolving the original passion. mars with moon = passion. If you want a short term attraction, choose an aries first decan. if not, find another desire in your signs and make that the goal.