Synastry chart: https://imgur.com/a/agREE1v
Aspects: https://imgur.com/a/60TQYFn
This person completely takes away my confidence whenever I spend time with them. It could be they say something which I personally feels like ends up undermining my identity or my personal skills- like they are taking away from the characteristics that I personally own. On top of that, conversation is very strained. They are constantly quick to nitpick me in conversation and I am constantly defending myself, sometimes having to defend myself in front of a lot of people. In this way, they end up affecting my reputation in front of others. I find myself having to be very careful about what I say around this person since I either fear criticism or am afraid of offending them and them “calling me out.”
To note, I have a very difficult chart for relationships:
https://m.imgur.com/a/fXB9rl5
I have Pluto on my descendant squared by Saturn in the 10th. This is not the first person where I’ve had a difficult time.
However, because I have to spend a very long time with this person and am unable to escape them, I am trying to at least improve my mental health around them. I am wondering what in the synastry is particularly causing this strain around communication- and what can I personally do about it?
Aspects: https://imgur.com/a/60TQYFn
This person completely takes away my confidence whenever I spend time with them. It could be they say something which I personally feels like ends up undermining my identity or my personal skills- like they are taking away from the characteristics that I personally own. On top of that, conversation is very strained. They are constantly quick to nitpick me in conversation and I am constantly defending myself, sometimes having to defend myself in front of a lot of people. In this way, they end up affecting my reputation in front of others. I find myself having to be very careful about what I say around this person since I either fear criticism or am afraid of offending them and them “calling me out.”
To note, I have a very difficult chart for relationships:
https://m.imgur.com/a/fXB9rl5
I have Pluto on my descendant squared by Saturn in the 10th. This is not the first person where I’ve had a difficult time.
However, because I have to spend a very long time with this person and am unable to escape them, I am trying to at least improve my mental health around them. I am wondering what in the synastry is particularly causing this strain around communication- and what can I personally do about it?
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