It is a little hard for me to respond without knowing much about Turkish culture and how boys and girls are raised to fit particular role models. Generally, even in North America, girls are encouraged to focus on relationships and their personal appearance, far more than boys are. Then rather than simply seeing "people as people" and interacting with them on that level, we tend to mentally segregate people on the basis of gender and to ascribe different qualities to males and females. And there can be some truth to this, in societies where what is means to be a man or a woman is seriously different.
The two "girl" planets in the chart are the moon and Venus. As you've noted, your moon rules your 11th house, is in the 12th and involved in a T-square with Saturn, Mercury, and Pluto. The moon symbolizes both your mother, and whatever images of femininity she conveyed to you; but also something about how you feel about yourself as an adult woman. So with the T-square, there's a bit of a conflict. Leo, further, likes to be queen in her castle.
Then you've got 5 planets (which is a lot) in Aquarius, with your sun conjunct both Venus and Mars. Basically half your planets are in an air sign, suggesting that your basic orientation to life is mental, even intellectual. You are not so oriented towards the feminine trait of relating to other women. With Mars conjunct sun, you may identify with traits that society normally thinks of as masculine, such as assertiveness. With Venus conjunct sun, you nevertheless identify with your femininity. I think you probably enjoy being the one female in the men's world!
Aquarius has a reputation for being unconventional, so in your heart, I doubt that you feel that you should live up to social expectations of conventional feminine relationships-- unless you are getting criticized behind your back for it, which a proud Leo moon would find very difficult to ignore.
It's interesting how many films and stories are about the "boys' club," with the one female who is both pretty and assertive, and manages to make it in their world. Princess Leia in the
Star Wars movies comes to mind, or Tinkerbell with the Lost Boys in
Peter Pan.
Frankly, I don't see anything wrong with enjoying your male friends' companionship. But the danger with your placements could be a tendency towards a Queen Bee type of dynamic.
http://thewaywomenwork.com/2013/03/calling-for-the-end-of-the-queen-bee/ This describes the solo woman in a man's world, who enjoys her unique status with the guys, and actually resents other women who want to join her. If you are familiar with the
Peter Pan story, Tinkerbell hates Wendy and nearly kills her! I'm not suggesting you'd be so extreme-- merely that you think about whether you'd welcome additional women into your circle of male friends.
