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Unread 06-18-2017, 04:33 PM
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Is this completely one-sided?

Sorry about the generic thread title..

I recently met this girl, and I'm starting to really like her. We went out and things were a bit awkward between us. I feel like my introverted nature has turned her off. While we were on our way home, I told her that I really liked her, and she said, "oh, well it's hard to tell." I reassured her that I liked her very much. She doesn't message me anymore, but in person, we talk as if nothing happened. I'm pretty sure we've hit a dead end.

I'm the Aries (inside), she's the Gemini (outside).
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Unread 06-18-2017, 06:31 PM
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Re: Is this completely one-sided?

No, I definitely see the attraction between you. That doesn't mean she's The One (you never know, and there's always more than "one"), but you have some key aspects that contribute to attraction and connection between two people. You have angle, nodal, and inner planet connections that are big factors in synastry, probably what brought you together in the first place.

Her Virgo asc and cancer moon makes her more shy than you (at least on the surface). You have all that 4H introversion going on. Tap into your jupiterian ascendant and Aries sun.....go after your lady in waiting. Flowers, romantic dates.....do sweet things. It's not going to go anywhere if both of you are introverted and shy, waiting for the other to make a move. It's going to be up to you. But you can do this! Step into the inner Aries warrior and go after your lady. Aries men are awesome at this once they get their confidence tuned up. It doesn't matter what you think or say.....show it through actions and sincerity. She's the type that's going to want a man to go after her, not the other way around. Make her feel confident that you are enamoured with her.

But yes, if you give this time, and put in the work to shoew her that you want her, there is potential. I do see that she will be very attracted to you sexually. Not sure it will last for the long term because that's up to both of you and your maturity levels (ability to work with your charts), but it could. Won't know if you don't try.

Just because people are compatible or have great synastry doesn't mean a relationship is guaranteed, ever. Timing, where you are in life, personal development/confidence.....all of that matters too. So it's not your fault if it doesn't work out.

don't be lazy about it. I see you have the potential to be lazy (or slow) to take action too. Lots of inner trines can produce that tendency.

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Unread 06-18-2017, 06:48 PM
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No, I definitely see the attraction between you. That doesn't mean she's The One (you never know, and there's always more than "one"), but you have some key aspects that contribute to attraction and connection between two people. You have angle, nodal, and inner planet connections that are big factors in synastry, probably what brought you together in the first place.

Her Virgo asc and cancer moon makes her more shy than you (at least on the surface). You have all that 4H introversion going on. Tap into your jupiterian ascendant and Aries sun.....go after your lady in waiting. Flowers, romantic dates.....do sweet things. It's not going to go anywhere if both of you are introverted and shy, waiting for the other to make a move. It's going to be up to you. But you can do this! Step into the inner Aries warrior and go after your lady. Aries men are awesome at this once they get their confidence tuned up. It doesn't matter what you think or say.....show it through actions and sincerity. She's the type that's going to want a man to go after her, not the other way around. Make her feel confident that you are enamoured with her.

But yes, if you give this time, and put in the work to shoew her that you want her, there is potential. I do see that she will be very attracted to you sexually. Not sure it will last for the long term because that's up to both of you and your maturity levels (ability to work with your charts), but it could. Won't know if you don't try.

Just because people are compatible or have great synastry doesn't mean a relationship is guaranteed, ever. Timing, where you are in life, personal development/confidence.....all of that matters too. So it's not your fault if it doesn't work out.

don't be lazy about it. I see you have the potential to be lazy (or slow) to take action too. Lots of inner trines can produce that tendency.

S.
Thank you Sadge, for your kind, and thorough reply. I'm definitely very introverted, and while she isn't all that shy at first, she has opened up about her issues with anxiety, both socially and in other areas. I am going to have to step up and go after her if I want this to go any further. Thanks once again, this comment, even if it doesn't seem like much to most, has given me a nice boost of confidence. I appreciate it, and you.
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Unread 06-19-2017, 05:54 AM
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Re: Is this completely one-sided?

Lots of first dates can be awkward. Based on this synastry if I were you, I'd ask her for another date.
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Unread 06-19-2017, 11:38 PM
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Lots of first dates can be awkward. Based on this synastry if I were you, I'd ask her for another date.
Thank you, Kannon.

I'm just a bit worried about my unaspected Sun. It makes a wide sextile to her Sun, but I feel like that's not enough. After pondering for the last few days, I think she might have trouble seeing me for who I am. We just don't connect.. but if the opportunity arises, I will give it another shot.
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Re: Is this completely one-sided?

Don't worry about 'unaspected Sun'. Your Sun is parallel her Saturn at 5 North. If you're somehow intimidated by that Saturn aspect, just know that many of us in long-term relationships have Saturn aspects in synastry. It is not relationship killer or joy killer, and can be a factor of commitment and respect.
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Don't worry about 'unaspected Sun'. Your Sun is parallel her Saturn at 5 North. If you're somehow intimidated by that Saturn aspect, just know that many of us in long-term relationships have Saturn aspects in synastry. It is not relationship killer or joy killer, and can be a factor of commitment and respect.
Thanks again, Kannon. I really like her, and I haven't felt the stereotypical repression/repulsion that is said to come with hard Saturn aspects, but it's still a bit early.
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Unread 06-20-2017, 04:27 AM
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Re: Is this completely one-sided?

Just go for it. You're taking it too seriously. Dating is fun....and this one will be up to you to reach out and show her that you're genuinely interested.

Sometimes introverted or shy people can inadvertently come across as standoffish or arrogant, but only because you don't find it easy to open up immediately. So make a conscious effort to reach out.

I'm telling ya....you only need to tap into your inner Aries. It's there, ready to get to work. Let him out. Don't worry about emotional stuff....your moon will take over whenever you guys are together and she will like it.

Life is too short. Love fearlessly! :-)
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Re: Is this completely one-sided?

This was a bad idea.

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