Best bet would be to give / post your friends natal chart, and then people can check up on it. The reasons and timings will be shown in it.
Post your friends chart and send me a pm as reminder, and I will definitely look into it, as now her life is changing and I would like to provide some suggestions for her future.
I think that also you should involve your friend in this too, that will also show your sincerity with her problems.
Otherwise why bother? Life is too short to begin with, and a person should be more concerned over his own problems.