My dad is not my biological father

katydid

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Thank you everybody for your help. Got the results. It's 0%. Life goes on. Dad will never know about the test. ❤️

I think that is an amazing and graceful way to treat your lifelong father.

My parents divorced when we were very young. My Dad had us 2 weekends a month and he was an OK Dad. He paid his child support and took us when he was scheduled to.

My Mom remarried when I was about 8. And he ended up being the most wonderful, positive father I could ever want. He was the one who really raised us, as he was there every day. And he put an effort into the job.

We looked nothing like him and had different last names---but he was truly my father.
 

Adar

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Hi, Adar

At least you have clarity now. With your moon in scorpio, i think you prefer truth over anything.
Neptunian, yes, I needed to know the truth. I actually feel better for the fact that so many things in my life are easier to explain now. It's an amazing experience I am going thru right now, thou it hurts.
Thank you again.
 

Adar

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I think that is an amazing and graceful way to treat your lifelong father.

My parents divorced when we were very young. My Dad had us 2 weekends a month and he was an OK Dad. He paid his child support and took us when he was scheduled to.

My Mom remarried when I was about 8. And he ended up being the most wonderful, positive father I could ever want. He was the one who really raised us, as he was there every day. And he put an effort into the job.

We looked nothing like him and had different last names---but he was truly my father.
Thank you for inspiring words, katydid. You are very kind🌹😇
 

neptunian

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Neptunian, yes, I needed to know the truth. I actually feel better for the fact that so many things in my life are easier to explain now. It's an amazing experience I am going thru right now, thou it hurts.
Thank you again.

I think, truth hurts better than a lie comforts.

Saturn rules your 8th house (secrets, mysteries) also tenth house father, opposing sun in 4th. Saturn is your birth father in your chart, sun in 4th your father who raised you.

If i take tenth house as your birth father's ascendant, you are in his 9th house, maybe there is a distance between you two. I think he is living at another city.

With neptune trines your saturn, i think you can even learn who he is. Of course you may prefer not to. This aspect just made me think you can learn.

These are what i can get from your chart. I can't imagine how i can feel if i learn who my birth parents etc.; i can guess how you feel a little bit. There is a saying, three things can't be long hidden: the sun, the moon and the truth.
 

Adar

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Neptunian, thank u very much for insight. I will try and trace my bio father when I return to my Self after this train crash, lol. I have an incline who it might be, but if I am right, then this person died when I was young. Right now I am a bit lost how to even start investigating it.
 

neptunian

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Neptunian, thank u very much for insight. I will try and trace my bio father when I return to my Self after this train crash, lol. I have an incline who it might be, but if I am right, then this person died when I was young. Right now I am a bit lost how to even start investigating it.

Hi, Adar

Yes, how much you try to be calm, that must be a shock for you.. You will get over these feelings.. with time i think you will even feel relief..
Yes, you need time... then you can decide to search for him or decide to let go..

If you have birthdate of that man, you can look at if there are similarities in your charts or you can compare his chart to your chart, to see if there is striking aspects between the charts.

I think before searching, you need time first to feel what you're feeling now...

Best of luck.
 

Adar

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Hi, Neptunian, thank u for your kind an wise words. I do have a chart for this man, but there is no tob.
 

neptunian

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Hi, Neptunian, thank u for your kind an wise words. I do have a chart for this man, but there is no tob.

I can't see the chart Adar, it is not seen. You can still look at aspects.
Are there similar placements in your charts? for example; my brother my father both have moon in aries, jupiter in libra, earth sun sign, fire mercury. Are there such similarities?
My father's saturn conjunct my brother's ascendant ruler.

Your ascendant ruler is moon, 28 degrees scorpio. Does he have a planet in late scorpio?

And look at interaspects between your charts like sun saturn , saturn to a personal planet, north node to a personal planet etc.
 

Adar

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The attachment is just hanging there without sending, been trying 4 ages
 

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Adar

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Hi, Neptunian, thank u again for you patience and your help, here is the chart of a "possible" father. Gosh. Is this for real? 😳
 
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neptunian

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Hi, Neptunian, thank u again for you patience and your help, here is the chart of a "possible" father. Gosh. Is this for real? ��

I understand you dear Adar, I'm also trying to learn who my birth parents are. difficult situations.

If we knew his birth time, it would have been better to analyze. Because we can't know his fifth house ruler now.

There are interesting interaspects though if your birth minute is accurate. Are you sure of your birth time? If so;

His neptune is on your sun uranus conjunction.

His south node conjuncts your Imum coeli point which represents roots.

His sun venus saturn north node conjunction is on your m.c
Your parental axis triggered by his planets.

Do you have resemblance with this man or his family members? Can you connect his family members to get some information ?

When i look at your natal chart, i think your father is not from the same city with you or he may have travelled. maybe at those times or later. You are in his ninth house represents long distance. Your birth parents may have met through work or a hobby.

He could have an artistic job or something to do with seas. Mars, neptune trines his significator saturn.

Your father significator saturn conjunct fixed star Achernar. this fixed star can give insight about his personality or situation maybe. What i read about this fixed star, it is about being born from ashes. It is also said to give success in career. I wonder what else this fixed star can show.
 

Adar

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I understand you dear Adar, I'm also trying to learn who my birth parents are. difficult situations.

If we knew his birth time, it would have been better to analyze. Because we can't know his fifth house ruler now.

There are interesting interaspects though if your birth minute is accurate. Are you sure of your birth time? If so;

His neptune is on your sun uranus conjunction.

His south node conjuncts your Imum coeli point which represents roots.

His sun venus saturn north node conjunction is on your m.c
Your parental axis triggered by his planets.

Do you have resemblance with this man or his family members? Can you connect his family members to get some information ?

When i look at your natal chart, i think your father is not from the same city with you or he may have travelled. maybe at those times or later. You are in his ninth house represents long distance. Your birth parents may have met through work or a hobby.

He could have an artistic job or something to do with seas. Mars, neptune trines his significator saturn.

Your father significator saturn conjunct fixed star Achernar. this fixed star can give insight about his personality or situation maybe. What i read about this fixed star, it is about being born from ashes. It is also said to give success in career. I wonder what else this fixed star can show.
Wow, what a coincidence! U r looking for your birth parents too??? Spooky! What you said about resemblance between this possible dad and myself is funny, cos I have a few pics of him where we look very similar. Don't know if it's just my imagination. He died quite young, so there is no way I could have checked him for paternity. My present dad was born in another city, yes. My parents and "possible" dad all met at Uni, and yes, they were all students of art, well done! :)
PS my tob is actually between 22 00 and 23 00 Moscow time. In those times they didn't write down tob on birth certificates, so my ASC could be Gem and not Cancer.How did u spot that??? U are amazing!
 
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neptunian

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Wow, what a coincidence! U r looking for your birth parents too??? Spooky! What you said about resemblance between this possible dad and myself is funny, cos I have a few pics of him where we look very similar. Don't know if it's just my imagination. He died quite young, so there is no way I could have checked him for paternity. My present dad was born in another city, yes. My parents and "possible" dad all met at Uni, and yes, they were all students of art, well done! :)
PS my tob is actually between 22 00 and 23 00 Moscow time. In those times they didn't write down tob on birth certificates, so my ASC could be Gem and not Cancer.How did u spot that??? U are amazing!

Yes, i don't know both of them. I have found photos of a woman at home, i think i look like her; but as you said, i am not sure if i really look like her or i'm being subjective:))

Thanks for your feedback Adar. I have been looking at the charts of adopted people for years. Not always, but usually there are giveways in the charts.

If you are more talkative, like socialising, not taking things much seriously, you can have a gemini rising. Cancer rising is more sensitive, reserved; gives a motherly or cute vibe. more home-oriented. Gemini rising is more outgoing and spend more time outside than a cancer rising. Ascendant is your attitude towards life. Is yours emotional or analytical?

Your birth time seems accurate. I wonder if he knew about you or not. If he knew you, maybe he would have get in touch with you.

If he is your father, you are a part of him. Wish you can connect his relatives. Maybe you can try to make friends with them if it is possible. Also my intuition about your father, again depending on your chart, he also has pisces energy. maybe his ascendant is pisces putting all his aquarius planets in his 12th house. then his fifth house becomes leo and ruler sun is also in 12th house. This can show a child he was unaware of. We can't be sure though.
 

Adar

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Neptunian, your calming influence is a treat for me, you sound so wise and reassuring! Don't know how to thank u. This is the possible dad. It's the internet picture, he was a bit of a public figure in 1970s. I have no idea of his ASC, but Libra comes to mind, no? I can be totally wrong, I usually am, lol.
 

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neptunian

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Neptunian, your calming influence is a treat for me, you sound so wise and reassuring! Don't know how to thank u. This is the possible dad. It's the internet picture, he was a bit of a public figure in 1970s. I have no idea of his ASC, but Libra comes to mind, no? I can be totally wrong, I usually am, lol.

Hi, Adar. :)

Thanks for your good words. Your intelligence is felt though your words.
I'm searching a lot about this topic.:) What is your mother's sun sign by the way? Maybe her sun falls in his fifth, seventh or twelfth house.

Life is how interesting. When i looked at your natal chart, i felt that your father is a good person.
Libra or virgo :unsure: or an air sign, i need to think. Can you tell me his death date, maybe analyzing transits at that time can give an idea about his house placements.
 

Adar

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My mother was a Libra sun. I have the most terrible memories of her, she was a complete and utter tyrant. Wait, may be I can post her chart for u, no tob either, thou
 

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Adar

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And here is the chart of "possible" dad's death
 

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