I am trying to understand my birth chart and relate it to my life experiences.
I have noticed that I have some difficult aspects in my birth chart Pluto opposite sun, Pluto conjunct moon. 8th house Saturn.
Lots of Pisces and 12th house stuff going on.
Was recently watching a YouTube video on Dejanira (Victim asteroid) and low and behold I have it exactly conjunct my North Node. I understand the asteroids as showing what is already going on in the birth chart and folk should not get too obsessed with individual asteroids and placements, but I can see how the theme of the Dejanira, feeling victimised and not being able to speak out is playing out in my chart.
I could never understand why someone would actively choose victimhood as their destiny, but instead have tried to put a positive spin on it and interpret it as something that I am trying to and master, so I that can help others.
I'm studying counselling, done a lot of work on myself. Also been been working with vulnerable kids and one of the first kids that I worked with was mute.
Commented as such on astrologers site, for this astrologer to shoot me down and state I need to just accept my 'fate'.
I admit that my 'victim mentality' is a work in progress, but this individual has made me feel like I shouldn't bother.
Is there anything positive going on in my birth chart, or am I just to accept my 'sucky fate' as its 'gods will'.
I'm not sure what I'm really looking for here. I certainly don't want everyone to gang up on the astrologer and agree with me that's she's mean. I just want to know if I've got anything good going on in my BC to counter balance all the victim stuff.
Thanks ahead for any replies.
I have noticed that I have some difficult aspects in my birth chart Pluto opposite sun, Pluto conjunct moon. 8th house Saturn.
Lots of Pisces and 12th house stuff going on.
Was recently watching a YouTube video on Dejanira (Victim asteroid) and low and behold I have it exactly conjunct my North Node. I understand the asteroids as showing what is already going on in the birth chart and folk should not get too obsessed with individual asteroids and placements, but I can see how the theme of the Dejanira, feeling victimised and not being able to speak out is playing out in my chart.
I could never understand why someone would actively choose victimhood as their destiny, but instead have tried to put a positive spin on it and interpret it as something that I am trying to and master, so I that can help others.
I'm studying counselling, done a lot of work on myself. Also been been working with vulnerable kids and one of the first kids that I worked with was mute.
Commented as such on astrologers site, for this astrologer to shoot me down and state I need to just accept my 'fate'.
I admit that my 'victim mentality' is a work in progress, but this individual has made me feel like I shouldn't bother.
Is there anything positive going on in my birth chart, or am I just to accept my 'sucky fate' as its 'gods will'.
I'm not sure what I'm really looking for here. I certainly don't want everyone to gang up on the astrologer and agree with me that's she's mean. I just want to know if I've got anything good going on in my BC to counter balance all the victim stuff.
Thanks ahead for any replies.
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