Lykanized
Well-known member
Ok. I'm having a recurring issue where I get misunderstood. I'm genuine with people and I show then love and empathy and sympathy, but I'm also no doormat. THese traits in themselves shouldn't lead to people thinking I'm a horrible person, but I have people who have literally admitted to stalking me online for months to create a narrative about who I am and paint me as a complete villain. If I do make a mistake, I admit it, but it seems to me no one else is interested in making peace or admitting their own part in whatever occurs
I have people rile up entire masses of other people against me and get them to believe absurd stories that paint me as a demon. I don't get it because I try to be good to people and I try to be honest. I will say, again, I'm not one to let myself or anyone else get taken advantage of so I will speak up if I see injustice. But the fact people paint me as a villain for this is a mystery to me
Perhaps there are other things I'm just not seeing. And please trust me, I've done intensive inner work. I don't lose my **** with people. I try to understand people. I reach out without animosity and attempt to make peace if something goes wrong. But they don't want to
I must be doing something wrong. I just don't get it. People are unwilling to hear my side of the story always
Any insight would be appreciated. I'm truly at a loss for words at how willing people are to turn against me and maybe there's something wrong with how I express myself? I don't know. It's making me hate people and distrust them. Especially knowing people would go so far as to stalk me online on multiple accounts and closely monitor my behavior and posts
I have people rile up entire masses of other people against me and get them to believe absurd stories that paint me as a demon. I don't get it because I try to be good to people and I try to be honest. I will say, again, I'm not one to let myself or anyone else get taken advantage of so I will speak up if I see injustice. But the fact people paint me as a villain for this is a mystery to me
Perhaps there are other things I'm just not seeing. And please trust me, I've done intensive inner work. I don't lose my **** with people. I try to understand people. I reach out without animosity and attempt to make peace if something goes wrong. But they don't want to
I must be doing something wrong. I just don't get it. People are unwilling to hear my side of the story always
Any insight would be appreciated. I'm truly at a loss for words at how willing people are to turn against me and maybe there's something wrong with how I express myself? I don't know. It's making me hate people and distrust them. Especially knowing people would go so far as to stalk me online on multiple accounts and closely monitor my behavior and posts