I met this guy at work. We became friends real quick. I didn't know that he likes me the same way I do. Well, gradually we started getting close and on my bday yesterday we got intimated. Thoroughly unplanned. We didn't have sex but everything else.
He did cry though. He confessed that he loves me and I did the same. But he himself is going through life crisis and told me that he does not want any relationship whatsoever and wants to be really good and close friends.
We both got it complicated but I do understand that if you both like each other and because of worldly circumstances, if you cannot escalate your relationship, it is really difficult to act just friends.
He asked me to think about it and talk all together and decide what could be the best for both of us about this situation.
I am asking you guys, what would be the future of this relation now? If you need more details, I will post much more information. But we do go out a lot for drives, eating, hangouts and blah.
Thank you!
He did cry though. He confessed that he loves me and I did the same. But he himself is going through life crisis and told me that he does not want any relationship whatsoever and wants to be really good and close friends.
We both got it complicated but I do understand that if you both like each other and because of worldly circumstances, if you cannot escalate your relationship, it is really difficult to act just friends.
He asked me to think about it and talk all together and decide what could be the best for both of us about this situation.
I am asking you guys, what would be the future of this relation now? If you need more details, I will post much more information. But we do go out a lot for drives, eating, hangouts and blah.
Thank you!
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