Venusinlibra
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I have always joked with my friends about the fact that astrology only survives thanks to romantic anxieties. Now I feel ashamed to be caught up in a feeling - it's not even a relationship exactly yet - in which everything seems to lead to disaster and I can not stop that train. I met this guy at some friends' cafe, where I always go to happy hour. It was electric and instantaneous. He's 20 years younger than me, comes from a totally different background. I'm completely obsessed with him, and he knows, and he's kidding me, I guess. One day he embraces me and I almost melt, but he does not kiss me. He told my friends that he felt something so powerful when we embraced that he was paralyzed and could not kiss me. The next day, he was cold. He never calls me, and he responds in a formal way mostly of time when I start a conversation. Then, suddenly, he smiles and seems to like me and chat a lot. He is breaking up and says he is very guilty of having left his wife, but I do not think that this is enough to stop a man from looking for the woman he wants. He does not want me, at least not as much as I want him. Today I researched a list of astrological aspects that cause sexual attraction and our synastry is amazing, it's all there. His mars+venus conjunction, falling in my 8th, conjunct my jupiter and my chiron, opposite my pluto, trine my moon and my asc. My mars exactly over his ascendant, opposite his moon and his neptune. His moon trine my sun and my uranus. His sun in my 7th, 7 degrees from my vertex, conjunct his own vertex and both trine my venus. Looking at our personal charts, I´ve seen transiting neptune is over his venus at 8th/9th, and progressed venus over his midheaven. Myprogressed sun is trining my vertex, and T-pluto is almost on my 7th, square my natal venus and opposite my natal moon. I've lost 5 kg in few days, I can not sleep or work, I behave as childish as a teen... Please, do you think something good can come from such a relationship? I have already done dozens of horary consultations, they all say he is not interested and noting will happen... But with all this aspects, is it possible, is it so one-sided? Attached, our synastry - not so bad - and our composite map - very bad.
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