MantisCutie22
New member
Hi all, new to this forum and somewhat new to astrology. I've actually been exposed to astrology my whole life, my sister and mother were always really into it, but I didn't get deep into it until this past year.
I met someone back in the fall and we really changed each other's lives, it was strange from the beginning. We "fell in love" extremely quickly, almost instantly, but it didn't feel traditional at all, seemed different and strange, we were always saying to each other that we loved each other but that we didnt understand it. We didn't feel compelled to start dating each other traditionally but to this day we are inexplicably attached and committed to each other. We're kind of platonic, kind of sitting on the fence of not platonic. It's weird but isn't a hindrance to us ATM.
Back in the fall we spent a LOT of time together and really just opened up and shared our darkest secrets, completely exposed ourselves to each other(for both of us, our interpersonal relationships are always intense but STILL this was different). Ultimately we ended up having an astral experience together, it was not planned, it happened just by looking at each other, lasted about 3 seconds, and the only way to explain it is that we reached a higher level of consciousness together. We're both pretty scientifically minded and healthy skeptics, so neither of us were prepared for the experience at all.
Since then, we describe our relationship as an "other worldly" kind of bond and have no idea how to explain it to other people. We're both interested in going forward with a sense of self awareness of what this relationship means for us. Since that experience I've really gotten deep into astrology and how it applies to all aspects of my life, but of course I'm so curious about the synastry between me and this other person.
I've looked up soulmate and karmic aspects in synastry and we definitely have some of those connections. But honestly, it seems that both of us attract very spiritual karmic interpersonal relationships, it's just without the level of acknowledgment or mutual understanding. I see similar aspects in our synastry charts with other people as well, but definitely have never consciously felt this knowing that our relationship goes beyond the earthly plane. I knew it before I really knew it.
So I guess my main question is, is there something I should be looking for in our chart that would indicate, not only that we are destined and spiritually attached in some way, but also that we seem highly aware of it and seem to be making a choice to "spiritually commit" to each other?? Also would love to hear if anyone has had similar experiences and how it all played out.
Thanks for any input!
I met someone back in the fall and we really changed each other's lives, it was strange from the beginning. We "fell in love" extremely quickly, almost instantly, but it didn't feel traditional at all, seemed different and strange, we were always saying to each other that we loved each other but that we didnt understand it. We didn't feel compelled to start dating each other traditionally but to this day we are inexplicably attached and committed to each other. We're kind of platonic, kind of sitting on the fence of not platonic. It's weird but isn't a hindrance to us ATM.
Back in the fall we spent a LOT of time together and really just opened up and shared our darkest secrets, completely exposed ourselves to each other(for both of us, our interpersonal relationships are always intense but STILL this was different). Ultimately we ended up having an astral experience together, it was not planned, it happened just by looking at each other, lasted about 3 seconds, and the only way to explain it is that we reached a higher level of consciousness together. We're both pretty scientifically minded and healthy skeptics, so neither of us were prepared for the experience at all.
Since then, we describe our relationship as an "other worldly" kind of bond and have no idea how to explain it to other people. We're both interested in going forward with a sense of self awareness of what this relationship means for us. Since that experience I've really gotten deep into astrology and how it applies to all aspects of my life, but of course I'm so curious about the synastry between me and this other person.
I've looked up soulmate and karmic aspects in synastry and we definitely have some of those connections. But honestly, it seems that both of us attract very spiritual karmic interpersonal relationships, it's just without the level of acknowledgment or mutual understanding. I see similar aspects in our synastry charts with other people as well, but definitely have never consciously felt this knowing that our relationship goes beyond the earthly plane. I knew it before I really knew it.
So I guess my main question is, is there something I should be looking for in our chart that would indicate, not only that we are destined and spiritually attached in some way, but also that we seem highly aware of it and seem to be making a choice to "spiritually commit" to each other?? Also would love to hear if anyone has had similar experiences and how it all played out.
Thanks for any input!