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Victoria

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is this a possible relationship? he is coming for our first date NOW
so I cant elaborate, but I am dying to know.
 

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Victoria

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If what I'm thinking is correct then,
ruler of asc is mercury, which signifies me?
and ruler of 7th or dec is him?

both in pisces,
mercury is in the 7th and quite close to the dec,
while neptune is in the 5 (cusp of 6th)
and jupiter ( i don't know which to use) is in taurus, and 9th.

It seems, if i'm trying to be objective, that I would like him.
But I cannot be objective and look at him, and my knowledge of honory is very (very very) limited.

Anyway, this is a very sweet nice troubled man who is outspoken,
and flirtatious, but very sensitive and sweet natured.
Our first meeting is a story not to be told, but we became friends fast
and it seems to me he might like me as something more than a friend.
However, I am worried I've "fallen" for a bit of a flirt,
so that is why I am asking the question,

is this a possible (romantic) relationship?
 

giacinto

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hi
you are mercury&moon in sign of jupiter you like him a lot!!he is jupiter&uranus
mercury-jupiter no aspects indicate a no
moon square jupiter indicate a no you are in 5th house romance love
sun in 8th house he see you more sexual; his second significator uranus not shows a long term conjuct you as mercury but i think that first aspect is moon-jupiter for a no.
maybe i am wrong i am not expert.
 

Victoria

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Thank you for your reply!

That is true, but the moon is in aspect with uranus.
Would that mean anything, or is that too small an aspect?

He asked me out again, for a second date today, but I am a bit worried
he just happends to be a bit of a charmer, or something.

Would love some more help, even if it is a no. :)
 

dr. farr

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(Following is not in accordance with standard horary practice and uses whole sign house format)

For me, the answer is, yes, probably so:

-querent = 1st house = Virgo = Mercury
-quesited (him, and also, possible relationship) = 7th house = Pisces = Jupiter
-Mercury flows toward Jupiter = + testimony
-querent's co-significator Moon flows toward Jupiter = + testimony
-querent is in detriment (Mercury in detriment) in Pisces (-) but notice that querent is in quesited's signfying sign/house (Pisces/7th house) which is (+), so net here = 0
-HIS lord of HIS 5th house (house of romance, under Cancer) is the Moon, and note that Moon flows toward the querent (Mercury) which is + testimony for his possible romantic interest in the querent
-however, there are no applying aspects among the various significators for each other = - testimony

Results:
Positive = +3
Negative = -1
Net = +2

...which is why I delineate a "yes, probably" answer to this question.
 

Victoria

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Very very intresting. Thank you!

We get along great, and we're quite kind to one another.
Out of the two of us, I am the one who's mean, but we've been
completely open and honest about everything. I fear that we only relate to eachother because of our troubles. But we have great fun, aswell.
He's quite sweet with me, and I am not afraid of letting go of control with him, which I have always been in my life. This just dosn't feel scary at all.
Nice and good and safe. It's lovely!

Trouble is, is he just taking care of me, or does he actually like me.
As you say, Dr. Farr, no aspects. And most of our natal charts clash with one another, still, we're getting along like a house on fire!
 

Anachiel

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If what I'm thinking is correct then,
ruler of asc is mercury, which signifies me?
and ruler of 7th or dec is him?

Yes, right..Mercury signifies you. Jupiter signifies him as it rules the 7th.

both in pisces,
mercury is in the 7th and quite close to the dec,

Yes, so this shows you are definitely going over to his side, you are definitely interested in him.

while neptune is in the 5 (cusp of 6th)
and jupiter ( i don't know which to use) is in taurus, and 9th.

Traditionally, Neptune wouldn't be considered.

It seems, if i'm trying to be objective, that I would like him.
But I cannot be objective and look at him, and my knowledge of honory is very (very very) limited.

Anyway, this is a very sweet nice troubled man who is outspoken,
and flirtatious, but very sensitive and sweet natured.

Signified by Jupiter in Taurus....I'm having a hard time seeing that. But, OK...

Our first meeting is a story not to be told, but we became friends fast
and it seems to me he might like me as something more than a friend.
However, I am worried I've "fallen" for a bit of a flirt,
so that is why I am asking the question,

is this a possible (romantic) relationship?

What we want to see is the two main significators come together; Mercury and Jupiter, and that isn't happening.

Your own signifcator is also detrimented in his house (the 7th) as well as void and about to change signs. I wonder if you are going to have a change of heart about this person.

The Moon does trine his own signficator Jupiter which, is a good sign but, not lasting.

I'd keep an open mind and your heart off your sleeve with this one.
 

dr. farr

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Very very intresting. Thank you!

We get along great, and we're quite kind to one another.
Out of the two of us, I am the one who's mean, but we've been
completely open and honest about everything. I fear that we only relate to eachother because of our troubles. But we have great fun, aswell.
He's quite sweet with me, and I am not afraid of letting go of control with him, which I have always been in my life. This just dosn't feel scary at all.
Nice and good and safe. It's lovely!

Trouble is, is he just taking care of me, or does he actually like me.
As you say, Dr. Farr, no aspects. And most of our natal charts clash with one another, still, we're getting along like a house on fire!


From my approach to horary, I consider the indications in this horary quite favorable for a + experience.
 

Victoria

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Thank you for your reply! All of you!

"I'd keep an open mind and your heart off your sleeve with this one."
Why do you say that, Anachiel? Is there anything suggesting
he'd break my heart? I typically do not go for relationships, and
very rarely do I ever feel anything like this for anyone.
I am not thinking a happily ever after-story (I am not that kind of a girl)
, but for now it feels good to be around, and with him.


And Dr. Farr, thank you for that !
Really think I like this one, and he seems to like me back.
Thus far, it is absolutely a+ !
 

Anachiel

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"I'd keep an open mind and your heart off your sleeve with this one."
Why do you say that, Anachiel? Is there anything suggesting
he'd break my heart? . ...

And Dr. Farr, thank you for that !
Really think I like this one, and he seems to like me back.
Thus far, it is absolutely a+ !

Just sound advice, nothing doomsaying
 

Victoria

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Oh, okay.

I'm not throwing myself into anything yet, but thus far
it seems quite loving. It's his birthday today, so I'm going
to his house in a while :)

I'll try and let the two of you know how it's going!
Thanks for all the advice! xx
 
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