Hi Catatonia, thanks for coming back on this one.
your method to "compatibility" is very amateur.
I dont consider myself an amateur after 25 years of astrology and being certified by the FAS in London. I follow mostly the rules Stephen Arroyo described in his book: "Relationships and lifecycles" and indeed also the book from Ronald Davison, "Synastry", understanding human relations through Astrology and have helped many couples over the years with good results.
Some youngsters are more mature than others at 21.I know a woman who studies to become a teacher ,who still sucks her thumb believe it or not, and has NO idea what a relationship is all about. She has hanged around with this divorced man + child since she was 14, just for security's sake, father image problem and there are many others like her. Even Saree himself was puzzled by the fact that "all of a sudden" she comes back and not only that, she asks to marry him!! after they had split up for years (dont know how many). Sounds to me very strange and yes,
immature even though she is an adult in years.
I dont know Catatonia, I hope you are right and they are made for one another, but I bet you that if they come together it wont be long before they will split up again, Juno and POF or not.
Davison writes that when the man's Saturn is in the 12th house of his female partner's horoscope, there may be some difficulties in the relationship and her Sun in his 12th, adversely aspected to his Venus could make it difficult for her to treat the relationship in a sufficiently objective way, because of her faculty of being able to make him subconsciously aware of his own psychological maladjustments. About the Moon in the 7th house,he indeed writes that it is frequently found in horoscopes of married couples, very true, but if the aspects to that Moon are adverse (and they are! his Moon is heavily afflicted by her Saturn, Pluto and Moon) then he will be particularly sensitive to being patronized, especially with his Mars situated in his own 12th house,
square her Uranus conjunct his IC. She is very likely to upset him and the family with her Sun-Uranus square in fixed signs. So no matter how well they may get along otherwise, I really think that their lives will be full of crisis, especially painful for him with his Moon in his 8th house and sensitive Pisces Sun. Pisces on the cusp of his 7th house and Mercury retrograde conjunct it and opposed to his Jupiter (and maybe also his Mars? cant see this without degrees) also does give the possibility of more than one serious relationship or marriage.
Ruler of his 7th, Neptune, squares his Saturn and her Part of Fortune. (her Neptune also squares her own POF). Many astrologers do not use the fixed stars like Juno and Vesta etc.. You do. Have you seen the Pluto-Saturn square Juno?(conj.Venus). I cannot see any degrees in this chart and have not run the charts myself, so maybe the square is too wide, but Venus-Pluto, Venus-Saturn, both difficult aspects, so that Juno of his is also not well aspected by her planets in 1st house. Indeed the Venusses sextile one another. Something should be pleasant in this chart for them to like one another and I'm sure they do. But he probably wants to know if he should marry her or not. He has doubts about her loving him, he knows her better than we do, so there must be a reason for his doubt. She already left him once and he probably is afraid she will eventually do it again and he does not want to take this risk. I find this situation risky.
This is really my honest opinion and sure, they can marry, but Saree was perplexed about her sudden "marriage move".
I would have been if I were him. Lets see what he has to say about all our opinions here and if he recognizes some of what we have said. So far no reaction from his side.
Best regards,
Starlink