Ukpoohbear
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I asked this question a couple of weeks ago, 'what will happen in the relationship.'
So basically, during the current mercury retrograde, a guy got back in touch with me and said he was 'willing to take the plunge.' Within a few hours I was back under the spell, but still had in the back of my mind, a sick feeling that he would play me about again by making excuses to not meet up and then disappear when I got mad about him, blaming me for being too intense. The last time this happened it went on for 4 weeks.
So he ended up doing the exact same thing! This time, it lasted only two weeks. I asked him to pop round to see me after work during the week, this was yesterday, and made plans to cook him dinner at mine this weekend. We had been talking everyday since last Monday.
During our conversations, I decided to make a horary so I could have a clue about what would happen, this is the one posted below. It basically said we will not meet up and I like him more than me and he loves himself. There was also an applying square to my sig Venus to Saturn, I wondered what this was.
Saturn is not so much a sig of a break up, and his sig Mars, was not applying to the break up sigs like Uranus (or Mars), so I was determined to prevent whatever Saturn was since it was coming from me. I googled what types of things Saturn could mean, it basically said grief. Would I be so upset by the break-up? My only other point of reference was a previous horary I had asked about a friend and his girlfriend and how long their violent relationship would last. His sig sextiled Saturn in 1 units of time - he went to prison for a month and they got back together when they were not kept a part anymore.
Well, my guy did not turn up to my house after work. I messaged him at 6PM and asked if he was still coming round and he said he needed to go see his friend. I had been excited all day and had put a full face of make up on and felt extremely let down. I messaged him angrily and he said he couldn't do this because I was too intense, so Saturn was being stood up. It is in the 3rd house, so my messages to him caused me to be rejected.
Tbh, it's not as bad as it seems. My sig is now in Taurus, and is no longer worried sick in the 6th house. The moon conjuncted my sig Venus, which was me initiating plans, and then Venus applied to Saturn by square.
His sig will soon conjunct Jupiter, he will be ready for another of his many casual relationships, and I was unwilling to be casual with him, plus he said he liked me more than that and wanted to 'take the plunge,' but kept stalling because it's not really what he wanted, he said he's been hurt a lot in the past. Whatever though, the guy is Mars exalting himself in Capricorn, his head is up his proverbial buttocks. However, me, Venus, was fallen and sick in the 6th house, I really needed to get to my domicile and continue on my road of self-care.
So there you go. I think it was good I took the initiative and made plans as a type of ultimatum, and got angry and pushed him away because he couldn't meet up. So neither is the victim or the bad guy, and all is well that ends well.
So basically, during the current mercury retrograde, a guy got back in touch with me and said he was 'willing to take the plunge.' Within a few hours I was back under the spell, but still had in the back of my mind, a sick feeling that he would play me about again by making excuses to not meet up and then disappear when I got mad about him, blaming me for being too intense. The last time this happened it went on for 4 weeks.
So he ended up doing the exact same thing! This time, it lasted only two weeks. I asked him to pop round to see me after work during the week, this was yesterday, and made plans to cook him dinner at mine this weekend. We had been talking everyday since last Monday.
During our conversations, I decided to make a horary so I could have a clue about what would happen, this is the one posted below. It basically said we will not meet up and I like him more than me and he loves himself. There was also an applying square to my sig Venus to Saturn, I wondered what this was.
Saturn is not so much a sig of a break up, and his sig Mars, was not applying to the break up sigs like Uranus (or Mars), so I was determined to prevent whatever Saturn was since it was coming from me. I googled what types of things Saturn could mean, it basically said grief. Would I be so upset by the break-up? My only other point of reference was a previous horary I had asked about a friend and his girlfriend and how long their violent relationship would last. His sig sextiled Saturn in 1 units of time - he went to prison for a month and they got back together when they were not kept a part anymore.
Well, my guy did not turn up to my house after work. I messaged him at 6PM and asked if he was still coming round and he said he needed to go see his friend. I had been excited all day and had put a full face of make up on and felt extremely let down. I messaged him angrily and he said he couldn't do this because I was too intense, so Saturn was being stood up. It is in the 3rd house, so my messages to him caused me to be rejected.
Tbh, it's not as bad as it seems. My sig is now in Taurus, and is no longer worried sick in the 6th house. The moon conjuncted my sig Venus, which was me initiating plans, and then Venus applied to Saturn by square.
His sig will soon conjunct Jupiter, he will be ready for another of his many casual relationships, and I was unwilling to be casual with him, plus he said he liked me more than that and wanted to 'take the plunge,' but kept stalling because it's not really what he wanted, he said he's been hurt a lot in the past. Whatever though, the guy is Mars exalting himself in Capricorn, his head is up his proverbial buttocks. However, me, Venus, was fallen and sick in the 6th house, I really needed to get to my domicile and continue on my road of self-care.
So there you go. I think it was good I took the initiative and made plans as a type of ultimatum, and got angry and pushed him away because he couldn't meet up. So neither is the victim or the bad guy, and all is well that ends well.
he said it would make him sick thinking of her at work and she would come home too tired to have coitus with him. I asked him why she was a prostitute, was she on hard drugs? But she was too fiery and he didn’t want to rock the boat by asking her 
he’s some guy, but not married.