lilithofeden
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I have been dating this guy for 2 years, and he moved into my place about 10 months ago.
The relationship feels pretty shallow. I don't feel any depth. He doesn't handle confrontation well, and will respond to "uncomfortable" situations with passive-aggressive sarcasm and dark humour. That is what our relationship consists of now. I am a pretty blunt person and can come across as being rude even if that is not my intention at all... he takes offense to it and is very sensitive (I'm Scorpio and he's Cancer). For example, I saw him feeding the dog peanut butter, and I said "I thought we agreed we wouldn't feed the dog human food?" He responded with "Why are you so confrontational?" I didn't think that was being confrontational.. I thought it was a legitimate question. I honestly don't feel like the love isn't there anymore (on my side, at least).
Some days I wonder if it's just me being too much in my own head (mercury in 3rd house of Scorpio, conjunct Pluto and trine mars... makes for a lot of over-thinking and possibly negative thinking), or is there more to this and he feels it too?
"Does he truly love me?"
The relationship feels pretty shallow. I don't feel any depth. He doesn't handle confrontation well, and will respond to "uncomfortable" situations with passive-aggressive sarcasm and dark humour. That is what our relationship consists of now. I am a pretty blunt person and can come across as being rude even if that is not my intention at all... he takes offense to it and is very sensitive (I'm Scorpio and he's Cancer). For example, I saw him feeding the dog peanut butter, and I said "I thought we agreed we wouldn't feed the dog human food?" He responded with "Why are you so confrontational?" I didn't think that was being confrontational.. I thought it was a legitimate question. I honestly don't feel like the love isn't there anymore (on my side, at least).
Some days I wonder if it's just me being too much in my own head (mercury in 3rd house of Scorpio, conjunct Pluto and trine mars... makes for a lot of over-thinking and possibly negative thinking), or is there more to this and he feels it too?
"Does he truly love me?"
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