So what do me and my husband expect on those days with hard Saturn aspects? Are we going to argue, fight?
All interpretation is subjective. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs about what they see in an astrological chart and how they interpret it. Below are excerpts from some of my posts regarding interpretation.
A. "Your story is a good example that there are no astrological signatures for anything. Not everybody with a chart very similar to that of a movie star, lottery winner, star athlete, mass murderer, serial killer, or any world renowned personality, lives the same life - too bad for me. I was born less than 6 hours later than Neil Diamond.
Aspects may indicate tendencies of a certain nature but what those tendencies may be applied to and how they will be played out is up to each individual. Probably not everybody born on the same day as you, with even the same angles as your chart with only the Moon in a different degree because of a different time zone (to get the angles the same or nearly so) became addicted to alcohol, perhaps not to anything at all. On the genetic and astrological scale others with a very similar chart to yours had parents with different genetics and most likely different charts than your parents. As Edgar Cayce said the planets are only influences but they are never stronger than the person's will."
B. "Let's expand it beyond twins to sextuplets and the 5th house (of children I think. I haven't used houses for years.). Will all of them have children on the same day? And what if the multiples are not the same gender - would not the experience involved be physically different for a male and a female twin even if they both became parents on the same day? Expand as much as you desire - multiples will not have the same experiences at the same time and probably not even within days of each other. There are cases of one twin murdering the other."
C. "In most cases I suspect that it is not the norm for all siblings of multiple births to get sick, get married or divorced, have children, get jobs, lose jobs, buy homes, get foreclosed, have surgeries, be a victim of assault, die, etc, etc, etc, at the same time. How many astrologers could correctly decide what was going to happen to whom, with certainty, no matter how "good" they are perceived to be nor what rate of success they may have demonstrated?"
D. "I have repeatedly stated my position that having only the Sun, Moon, and eight planets to apply to an uncountable number of possible manifestations that there can be no astrological signature for anything, only correspondence noted, and beyond a most likely positive or negative, easy or difficult "prediction" in regards to such correspondences everything after is guesswork."
E. "Just as no "astrologer" could determine race, gender, body type, sexual preference, or if the subject was a living thing (human, plant, or animal), inanimate object (World Trade Center, Columbia Space Shuttle), or a Presidential term, political entity (New York City), I do not believe effects, other than positive or negative, happy or sad, fortunate or unfortunate, may be postulated. Nor is it possible to determine if an expected experience will be physical or mental. That being said, with some knowledge of the subject of a chart, it is possible to make an "educated guess" that could be considered "in the ballpark".
We only have 2 luminaries and 8 planets to indicate an infinite number of possibilities. The best that can be done in reality is to get the date and a time within a 4 hour window if a place is known and to surmise if conditions will be difficult or easy. Anything beyond that is guesswork unless it is known what particular activity a person will be involved in on that date, at that time and place.
Remember that we experience life at a physical, emotional, and cellular (such as when a cancer is growing without our knowledge) level, so not all contacts will manifest in a manner we notice.
Even with exactness of planetary placements in relationship with the angles or other planets in a chart there is no exact prediction of what will come to pass. If anybody believes otherwise, I have a life span of almost 71 years, a timed birth chart, and have lived through the conjunctions, sextiles, squares, trines, and oppositions of all of the outer planets to all of my natal planets and angles and would enjoy their interpretations detailing the experiences of any 1 of those transits. A ballpark of positive or negative, easy or difficult, is all that may be forecast without intuition or a 'sixth sense' playing a role. How could it be otherwise when you have but 2 luminaries and 8 planets with which to describe the countless experiences which occur every moment in the world?"