Hi
Thanks for putting the birthdays here.
My apologies for not seeing the +- signs as polarities before!
Basically, as you rightly put, you are a weak yang wood rabbit borne in the month of the metal monkey. In terms of the Day Master (DM), you are wood element and not fire as the year suggested.
Your girlfriend is a weak yin wood horse borne in the month of the fire horse and similarly like you, she's also wood element Day Master(DM) but of yin polarity.
Both of you are considered weak wood as the months you are borne are not conducive for the growth of the wood element no matter the polarity. As such, your relationship with each other is such that you draw support from each other.
Strictly speaking, your DMs are not husband and wife elements BUT as karma would have it, if you are meant to be together, you will be together despite this.
However, in Chinese birthdays analysis (you might swear at me for saying this!?), you and your girlfriend have a destructive relationship.
Your birth chart indicate you are attractive to the opposite sex with one peach blossom star.
Your girlfriend's chart indicates she has habits that are not healthy for a relationship or otherwise, and she has a complicated family background involving a harmful relationship with a parent and is prone to doing stuff
that are not good for herself. So..?
My apologies if the analysis is not what you expected.
May the blessings be!