Runa
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My bf has been mentioning marriage, engagement especially, and we've been together about a year. There was an instant magnetic connection and it feels right. I am trans, and that is a hurdle we are trying to jump over. I have met his sister and brother, albeit tentatively, and it's gone very smoothly. Nobody has said anything. I do have anxiety about meeting his parents, as I do not know too much about them, if they were cold or if they're traditional, or if I should take something they offer, or reject it. In my own vietnamese culture, not accepting out of kindness is rude. Our fights can get really intense, but I am very happy with him. Aside from some things that linger in the back of my head about his fidelity (based on his sexual drive), and his horrid sense of time, i am very happy and grateful. his family is from turkey. it's just a crazy merge of different races and sexuality, we will be compared to his siblings and their significant others- and i cannot have children- it's a lot. is there something in our chart i should know? i would rather avoid something that wont work out..
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