ChildOfVenus
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Has anyone ever had this in synastry before? If so how does this overlay play out?
You already have Saturn in your 4th natally. So having a potential partner with their Saturn in your 4th will not feel too debilitating.
They do have that pesky Sun/Saturn opposition in their natal chart though. And it is highlighted with Chiron aligning the Sun.
So they may bring some uncertainties, some doubts, to the relationship?
In my experience, what counts in synastry are the personal planets, but usually you can reduce it to just ASC, Moon and Sun. So if you get a clear picture of the relationship based on these three factors already, you usually don't have to worry about any of the other factors. They will be minor influences only and are not going to change anything significant.
Right, people that trigger your 12th house make you aware of your own 12th house issues, i.e. issues on a less superficial level (which can be very uncomfortable). That's the flip side of it.Yeah I know but I'm having some difficulties with this person. I want us to have a friendship but it's hard for me I think it's the cancer placements. I don't really do well with men who or Cancers or men with Cancer placements. It could be because my 12th house is in Cancer. I don't like expressing my emotions and I know people with Cancer in their chart tend to be emotional.
His sun is opposite your Saturn and Uranus, which is not promising for a long term relationship. It looks like your Venus bouncing off his Uranus and moon is what is attracting you to him, but there are more negative aspects than positive. You already feel this, though, don't you?
Right, people that trigger your 12th house make you aware of your own 12th house issues, i.e. issues on a less superficial level (which can be very uncomfortable). That's the flip side of it.