New Moon in the 7th House

So.. we had this fight with my boyfriend on sunday, about an old issue we had 2.5 years ago. he hung up on me (we were on the phone) and then we haven't really talked after that.

I was wondering, could this new moon in my 7th house help me at all? I'm really miserable, I really miss him, and I feel like he should call, but he doesn't, and I'm always the one to call, and I want to stop it.

The moon squares mercury, so perhaps we'll have communication troubles for a little while longer? but sextiles Neptune, so perhaps we'll dream about how it could be better?

Gah. I really need some help

Hi there

A lunation in the 7th house can sometimes signify something to do with a relationship. New Moons can bring fresh starts, new relationships, but I believe it has to aspect a natal planet of yours, or aspect a progression which aspects your natal planets. It has to trigger the 'natal promise' in other words.

The new Moon squares Mercury but its quite a loose square, it may have a light influence regarding communications. It has a tighter aspect to your natal Moon at 29 Scorpio, in opposition. Its on the cusp of your 8th house. Perhaps this period will be a period of transformation in some way for your emotions. Everything happens for a reason, maybe this argument has been building up to some sort of realisation leading to a transformation in your emotional values (Moon on 2nd house cusp). It could be the start of a transformation that comes into full realisation by full Moon around 27th May, the full Moon being in your 2nd house of personal values and self esteem.

NR

Your question would be suitable for a horary question, IF you follow the basic rules
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/faq.php?faq=horary#faq_horary_astrology_boards

Transits
I use--- 1' approaching, 1' exact and 1' departing. If you click on the link listed below for the online ephemeris it will list all planets at any given time. Learning astrology is like learning a new ‘language’ and obviously the more effort you put into something the more your knowledge and understanding will increase. All transits act as ‘background’ influences through a house, until it makes a mathematical aspect to a planet inside or an Angle.

For 'timings' I would look to the retrograde hit as the most important trigger, then look to see what the quicker planets are doing especially mars & mercury --

astro.com has fee six month transit forecast plus when you get into Extended chart selection, look at the three tabs after calculating a chart under ‘method’ default is circular wheels (on left), middle is special charts and in their you get graphic ephemeris 1yr (or 5years) with natal = transits for 1yr and lots more. BUT you first must learn or memorise the 'glyphs' ie: shorthand for recognising what these maps/graphics mean.

For example when you post or reply to a chart the 'smilies' to the right and just under them [more] if you click on there it will bring up a whole loads of 'glyphs' Mercury Uranus conjunction (+or - 8') trine aspect 120' Libra
http://cafeastrology.com/transits.html
http://cafeastrology.com/transits_2.html
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/transits18.0.htm
http://www.astro.com/faq/fq_fh_transits_e.htm
http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_transits_e.htm
http://www.astro.com/swisseph/ae/2000/ae_2009.pdf
http://www.khaldea.com/kldaephem/2000/oct2009gmt.shtml
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology/astrology-glyphs.php
http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoundation/BookTransitsAndProgressions.htm

Now it's more important to focus on transits from Jupiter to Pluto (poss mars as this is the ignition key)and these planets when aspecting something in your natal chart 'set off' the difficult or nice 'aspects - potential - problems' that your chart expresses. By that I mean if a benefic planet like Jupiter hits/touches/transits your venus, mars or uranus these could be experienced very pleasantly. BUT if your natal venus is afflicted, or badly aspected say conj saturn then jupiter will not has such a good effect. It all depends on how the natal planet is 'aspected'

For me I would say external 'events' must be seen by transits, progressions or Solar arcs to Angles ie: Asc/Desc & MC/IC most other times these events are 'internal, psychological matters as in between the ears'

This last website link is rather nice because it gives interpretations of what the ‘Lord’ of the house cusp ruler means ie: T Jupiter sextiles natal sun, so wherever Leo rules in your chart is connected to the area this transit will be affecting –
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/transits/

There is a 'plethora' of information on AW, espec in the 'stickys' at the top of every forum, our Education forum and Recommendations forum to. Plus we have a good search feature, bit like google using keywords --

What Astrology Can and Can Not Do
http://www.ofspirit.com/susanmiller1.htm
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/whatastrologycandoforyou.html