by parallel do you mean conjunct your dc? and therefore on the asc and dc axis?
and if it is conjunct your dc how does that manifest itself... does it sabotage your relationships? i am still learning about lilith in the chart but it would be interesting to know how it applies to your own experiences..
This subject is very interesting for me, because I'm reflecting about this position of Lilith for a while now. A very closed person to me have Lilith on the ASC in Cancer with Sun in Libra. So, I think that in your two cases it is Venus who makes you desiring the appreciation. In the case of Libra/Sun this is even for a vital importance.
What I observed for this position that is Lilith in the First, sometimes it is as like the person isn't really "at home" and often seeking for the future life she wants to live. But I have difficulties to express this, it is not so clearly shown.
The mind of this person I'm thinking about, is very quick, when she likes her task, it is always done very quickly and with enthousiasm, but as a good Cancerian she has moods which she can very good control and handle with. Very sensitiv she is by every moon change. She is also a very loving and tender person.
In her childhood she was often attacked by schoolmates and therefore didn't come really in a group, but worked good at school and even liked to go at school. Perhaps this position marks a great individuality, a sens to be alone and to have feelings not to be a strong one ? And like you, there are good abilities for writing - but is this for Lilith or for Mercury in Libra? I don't know.
Because, sometimes I felt that she didn't have enough a strong "I".People with Lilith here need to learn to stand up for the self and believe in their rights to be autonomous, indepedent, and self-interested. Others will begin to respect this if they accept themselves as Lilith and love themselves for it.
It's interesting and fitting in some way. I have "true" lilith at 0d capricorn (ASC 5d capricorn, so)...and the "mean" lilith is like 23d Cap.Yeah, it's really difficult to distinguish how she works in the 1st. thank you for sharing, i can relate to some of what is said here but i also have cancer in the 1st. like the person you know.
have you read this:
definitely holds much truth for me
http://www.tdjacobs.com/lilith1.html
you may wish to look at astrotheme website.
Marilyn Monroe and Prince William(england) have Lilith near their ascendant.
HA WE ACTUALLY SHARE SOME STUFF!!!! I am also virgo sun and Sagi moon and leo ascCaro I just wanted to thank you for your signature. Time for Change. Saturn and Uranus are both exalted in my complex chart. That kinda helped thanks.
-I know offtopic. Sorry.
I really don't think it speaks about something obvious. If Lilith has any meaning, it would make sense it be somewhat like pluto in that regard. Very fated simply. Something one doesn't see the pattern of so easily.
QUOTE]
interesting take on it, not sure what you mean by fated tho?
if pluto events are highly transforming and create issues with power, obsession etc. how does lilith work with fate? just interested if you have any personal theories.. would be interesting to hear.
HA WE ACTUALLY SHARE SOME STUFF!!!! I am also virgo sun and Sagi moon and leo asc
No I haven't given Lilith much thought and I'm a bad astrologer in most respects.interesting take on it, not sure what you mean by fated tho?
if pluto events are highly transforming and create issues with power, obsession etc. how does lilith work with fate? just interested if you have any personal theories.. would be interesting to hear.