redrobin23
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Ok, this is not as fatalistic as it may sound, but I need some clues whether it's true love on his part. So, I've known this man a long time. I met him in high school. We were friends and both dating other people. After we graduated we remained in contact, of course. I moved away and started my life in a new city. At first we called each other constantly but as the years passed the calls were fewer. During my life abroad I came back home to visit family and had a fling with him...Oops. Anyway, our feelings grew for each other at a distance. Still I had no intention of coming back or being with him. Everything was fine until a substanial twist of fate changed my life and brought me back to the start. Since then we have began a commited relationship ( which Im aware now, may not have been the best choice. Idk, im in love it's complicated). I know most our wondering what's the problem, right? Ok, here is where it gets tricky. My current beau is not a citizen and he wants citizenship. He's not forcing me to marry him, which no one can anyway, but he wants me to kind of promise him I will eventually. Plus, the hinting around about how his life would be better and so fourth..I love him and I know he loves me..but to what extent. I want to help him yet I'm not exactly comfortable having my back against the ropes. So, I wonder. Does he really love me or does he want to take advantage of my kindness? If I do marry him, will he leave after he has citizenship or is it really love? Am i just letting fear take control? Honestly, I do want to help him, but I dont want to get hurt in the process. This is why I question the validity of the realtionship. I really do love him as person and friend, but again, I'm not sure if it's fear that's holding me back or reasonable doubt. Is it wrong to think twice before entering a union? Should those feeling even be present in a relationship or is that nagging feeling on point?
Please...Please Astrologers Community Help me!!!!! I'm so confused
Please...Please Astrologers Community Help me!!!!! I'm so confused
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