Oh Katydid.. I'm so terribly sorry you had to endure such a painful experience.(I know I did too) and acted out too... I'm wondering now, Was my daughter sexually abused? Is there any sign in her chart that that could be possible? Her father did not have much contact with her all her life. (another story) but I do have other male family members that were in her life. I love the fact that your grandmother did this astrology book for you, and it really made a big difference. This is what I'll do then.. thankyou... I really felt also that this would help her. I will get that book too. this means so much to me... I'm glad I posted now.. Your a Gem !
I don't see any evidence in her chart that she was sexually abused-[ although I cannot say it didn't happen either. ]
I think she felt 'abused' or unfairly treated in some way by Saturnian types---whether that is the father or the male figures, or school administration, or authority figures... or just tradition and expectations in general?
Whether there is any reality to base her fears upon is not fully known. But nevertheless, she did feel that she was treated very unfairly, and she felt intimidated and perhaps even threatened in some way.
Because the opposition of the Sun/Pluto to Saturn is challenging the Moon, it may mean that she felt you were also being attacked by these male authority figures. Maybe that is what she was responding to. Were you being mistreated or abused by her father? She may have thought so, even if she never witnessed anything.
She came into the world with this chart for a reason. It is not about you, or anything you did or didn't do. She came in with this chart for a reason and it is about her soul's evolutionary journey.
When Saturn finally leaves her malefic T-square, things will improve for her.
