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I am Ale and I am currently married to a man that I was with for 7 years. I got married at 21 and had my Daugther before I got married at 21. I have given up in this relationship for over two years. I have tried and fought what I needed and wanted in this relationship but all I ever received was harsh and cold responses and no admiration and romance. There was security, forgiveness, and little love in this relationship but I have tried to understand that the person I married is that way, cold and unresponsive and only restrict me to do things in what he wants. I barely had a say and when he did let me spend time with my parents and sisters, he would be okay but once I was home he would treat me like I was sleeping with men. He is a good person but I feel more like he is a father to me than an actually husband and lover. Sex got to a point where it cringing. I do not even care about whatās going on around the house because I felt unappreciated and not that he sees that he temporarily ātriesā to help me but he goes back to his normal cold self. I really am tired but I am scared to divorce because of my Daugther. I feel that he will use my Daugther as a tactic or he will make my life miserable. I fear that I will be more restricted in some way. I do love him but I donāt want what he gives me.
I see Saturn in the 7th house in my chart play out, but I am not sure what other aspects is playing out. I just want to know if this relationship will end? Will I be happy with just my daughter?
I am not sure how to add the chart but Iāll give you my birth.
Mine- July 20th 1992 Valhalla, New York 6:35am
His - July 4th 1990 Los Teques, Venezuela 5:30pm
https://www.astro.com/tmpd/cc32filemcMj88-u1583957152/astro_acc_01_03_ale_rose_eli_hp.64709.37558.png
I am Ale and I am currently married to a man that I was with for 7 years. I got married at 21 and had my Daugther before I got married at 21. I have given up in this relationship for over two years. I have tried and fought what I needed and wanted in this relationship but all I ever received was harsh and cold responses and no admiration and romance. There was security, forgiveness, and little love in this relationship but I have tried to understand that the person I married is that way, cold and unresponsive and only restrict me to do things in what he wants. I barely had a say and when he did let me spend time with my parents and sisters, he would be okay but once I was home he would treat me like I was sleeping with men. He is a good person but I feel more like he is a father to me than an actually husband and lover. Sex got to a point where it cringing. I do not even care about whatās going on around the house because I felt unappreciated and not that he sees that he temporarily ātriesā to help me but he goes back to his normal cold self. I really am tired but I am scared to divorce because of my Daugther. I feel that he will use my Daugther as a tactic or he will make my life miserable. I fear that I will be more restricted in some way. I do love him but I donāt want what he gives me.
I see Saturn in the 7th house in my chart play out, but I am not sure what other aspects is playing out. I just want to know if this relationship will end? Will I be happy with just my daughter?
I am not sure how to add the chart but Iāll give you my birth.
Mine- July 20th 1992 Valhalla, New York 6:35am
His - July 4th 1990 Los Teques, Venezuela 5:30pm
https://www.astro.com/tmpd/cc32filemcMj88-u1583957152/astro_acc_01_03_ale_rose_eli_hp.64709.37558.png
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