Hi guys,
I have a question about my friend whom I told off a few days ago. I usually ask about love horaries, so this one is new and would love some help with it please. I've known her for a year now and there are also 2 more girlfriends in our group, so we're all very close friends. This particular one has a 'personality' of her own, but she also has her good sides, so I'm not putting her down, because the positives outweigh the negatives. For a few times now, I've noticed that she is trying to put me down.
Some of the things she does is to try to say something good about her life as in to match mine from different aspects. She got a job as an admin assistant at some accounting firm recently and now she has been bragging about how she's going to pursue accounting degree (masters) in the future to become an accountant and make a partner later on in the future at an accounting firm. Last year she was planning to get her MBA, but never even pursued it and now she's becoming an accountant and a partner at a firm supposedly. I see this as a blah blah blah...as if to constantly show that she is going to reach the top and has dreams for herself that she is going to realize, but she is unhappy in life and she told me this some time ago with her family situation, so I feel like she isn't feeling 'complete' hence her constant bragging, which is simply hypothetical because it's all 'in the future.'
A few days ago we were out in a group and she told me specifically "I can take you in as a receptionist when I own my accounting firm." I must add that we both have bachelor degrees. I have double majors from a top university (UC system). She has just 1 bachelor degree, yet she is going to do me a 'favor' by taking me in as a receptionist in a million years when she makes a partner at an accounting firm and that's after getting her masters degree and working for years to get to that point (we're both in our early 30s) and she isn't even pursuing her masters and who knows if she ever will.
)) So later the next day she wrote in our FB group messaging how she is excited about moving between homes now. Her family lived in one place they have a mortgage on, but they were building a new 4-bdr home on another mortgage too, so she shared her exciting news and so did I, because on the same day I was moving back into my own renovated home as I had a flooding in my house and was forced to move out of my home for 2 months until my house was completed. So when she mentioned about her news, I asked her which street she moved to now? That's the only comment I made besides sharing my own exciting news about moving back to my own place and how nice my home now looks compared to before, so she replied to me saying "A little correction...while you are moving into an old house that's simply been renovated, I am moving into a brand new house that has been newly built from roof to the ground lol." So I read this comment and I am like wow, did she just po*p in my own shared news or what, since what does it even matter that I am moving to my old house and she moving to a brand new built home if we are talking about completely different things, which was our collective move to new homes regardless whether it's renovated or brand new. So I replied to her saying "omg u need to chill, it's not a competition and what does it even matter who is moving to old or new house if we are talking about completely different things...about our timing together and excitement about moving into newly renovated homes." So she got angry at me for confronting her in front of our other friends in that chat, so then she replied to me saying "No, you need to relax more, I was just saying that u are only moving to an old place while mine was brand new." Then after seeing that I'm going off on her (having enough of her bs), she says to me "im done with this conversation" and leaves our group chat.
She stirred things up with her stupid and unnecessary comment trying to put me down, then throws a temper tantrum and walks away from a conversation. It's like if you are going to be rude at least don't be mad if someone retaliates. My question is whether we will reconcile or not because we had a nice group regardless of her stupid tantrums against me as I now see it as if she's insecure towards me, so maybe she's jealous of certain things and can't contain herself lol, hence her attempts to marginalize me. I'm more worried for our friend group than losing her specifically. I am Jupiter in detriment in my 7th house of enemies? She, as a friend, is Saturn rx (changed mind about something...maybe her behavior?) There's a separating square between us, which shows the argument we had? Mars deters Moon and Saturn from connecting so that hinders a reconciliation? Should the communication houses for both be taken account in this case or just the significators? If so, could you help me determine if there's going to be communication? Sorry for the long background, but I wanted to be clear about what had happened and I would be grateful for comment regarding the chart. I suppose I should not have gone down to her low level by commenting, but it wasn't the first time as I mentioned, so for me it was like 'wtf is your issue towards me' so I wanted to put her in her place.
I have a question about my friend whom I told off a few days ago. I usually ask about love horaries, so this one is new and would love some help with it please. I've known her for a year now and there are also 2 more girlfriends in our group, so we're all very close friends. This particular one has a 'personality' of her own, but she also has her good sides, so I'm not putting her down, because the positives outweigh the negatives. For a few times now, I've noticed that she is trying to put me down.
Some of the things she does is to try to say something good about her life as in to match mine from different aspects. She got a job as an admin assistant at some accounting firm recently and now she has been bragging about how she's going to pursue accounting degree (masters) in the future to become an accountant and make a partner later on in the future at an accounting firm. Last year she was planning to get her MBA, but never even pursued it and now she's becoming an accountant and a partner at a firm supposedly. I see this as a blah blah blah...as if to constantly show that she is going to reach the top and has dreams for herself that she is going to realize, but she is unhappy in life and she told me this some time ago with her family situation, so I feel like she isn't feeling 'complete' hence her constant bragging, which is simply hypothetical because it's all 'in the future.'
A few days ago we were out in a group and she told me specifically "I can take you in as a receptionist when I own my accounting firm." I must add that we both have bachelor degrees. I have double majors from a top university (UC system). She has just 1 bachelor degree, yet she is going to do me a 'favor' by taking me in as a receptionist in a million years when she makes a partner at an accounting firm and that's after getting her masters degree and working for years to get to that point (we're both in our early 30s) and she isn't even pursuing her masters and who knows if she ever will.
)) So later the next day she wrote in our FB group messaging how she is excited about moving between homes now. Her family lived in one place they have a mortgage on, but they were building a new 4-bdr home on another mortgage too, so she shared her exciting news and so did I, because on the same day I was moving back into my own renovated home as I had a flooding in my house and was forced to move out of my home for 2 months until my house was completed. So when she mentioned about her news, I asked her which street she moved to now? That's the only comment I made besides sharing my own exciting news about moving back to my own place and how nice my home now looks compared to before, so she replied to me saying "A little correction...while you are moving into an old house that's simply been renovated, I am moving into a brand new house that has been newly built from roof to the ground lol." So I read this comment and I am like wow, did she just po*p in my own shared news or what, since what does it even matter that I am moving to my old house and she moving to a brand new built home if we are talking about completely different things, which was our collective move to new homes regardless whether it's renovated or brand new. So I replied to her saying "omg u need to chill, it's not a competition and what does it even matter who is moving to old or new house if we are talking about completely different things...about our timing together and excitement about moving into newly renovated homes." So she got angry at me for confronting her in front of our other friends in that chat, so then she replied to me saying "No, you need to relax more, I was just saying that u are only moving to an old place while mine was brand new." Then after seeing that I'm going off on her (having enough of her bs), she says to me "im done with this conversation" and leaves our group chat. She stirred things up with her stupid and unnecessary comment trying to put me down, then throws a temper tantrum and walks away from a conversation. It's like if you are going to be rude at least don't be mad if someone retaliates. My question is whether we will reconcile or not because we had a nice group regardless of her stupid tantrums against me as I now see it as if she's insecure towards me, so maybe she's jealous of certain things and can't contain herself lol, hence her attempts to marginalize me. I'm more worried for our friend group than losing her specifically. I am Jupiter in detriment in my 7th house of enemies? She, as a friend, is Saturn rx (changed mind about something...maybe her behavior?) There's a separating square between us, which shows the argument we had? Mars deters Moon and Saturn from connecting so that hinders a reconciliation? Should the communication houses for both be taken account in this case or just the significators? If so, could you help me determine if there's going to be communication? Sorry for the long background, but I wanted to be clear about what had happened and I would be grateful for comment regarding the chart. I suppose I should not have gone down to her low level by commenting, but it wasn't the first time as I mentioned, so for me it was like 'wtf is your issue towards me' so I wanted to put her in her place.
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